真正快乐的人-他们已经学会了拒绝(2)

Happy individual真正快乐的人

 

They have learned to say no.

 

他们已经学会了拒绝

 

It sounds strange, but saying "no" doesn't come easy for some people.

 

However, genuinely happy people don't buy into the idea of keeping others happy if you'r always down as a result.

 

Instead, they exercise their right to say no, and doso in an assertive¹ manner, that neither takes away from their relationships, or their own happiness.

 

 

1 assertive   

adj.果断的，自信的，有冲劲的

参考例句：

• She always speaks an assertive tone.她总是以果断的语气说话。
• China appears to have become more assertive in the waters off its coastline over recent years.在近些年，中国显示出对远方海洋的自信。