告别一段恋情-自我原谅(4)

Forgive yourself.

 

自我原谅

 

If you're someone who's absurdly¹ harder to no one but yourself, this is going to be a tough challenge². But with time, your eyes will be opened and when you finally see and realize your worth, you'd be totally okay. That's even if the guy you once loved failed to see it.

 

如果你是那种对自己要求出奇地严格的人，这将是一个困难的挑战。但随着时间流逝，你终将会看开，当你最终发掘到自己的价值时，整个人会明朗很多。而这是那个你曾经爱过的人所不曾察觉的。

 

Contact him.

 

联系曾经那个他

 

The chances may be really slim but be sure to exhaust³ all ways of telling him goodbye (phone, email, social media⁴ accounts). Tell him you're done and you're never waiting for him, ever. Don't wait for his reply but rather remove him totally from your life by blocking him and changing your phone number.

 

但是你要利用各种方式跟他说拜拜，无论是电话，邮件还是社交媒体。告诉他你已经放下了他并且再也不会等他回心转意。不要等待他的回复，相反，你还要将他屏蔽或者更换手机号，以此将他从你的生活中彻底抹去。

1 absurdly   

adv.荒谬地，荒唐地

参考例句：

• The paintings were sold for absurdly high prices. 那些画以高得出奇的价格售出。 来自《简明英汉词典》
• I'm afraid you'll see him carrying on even more absurdly later. 将来只怕比这个更奇怪的笑话儿还有呢！ 来自英汉 - 翻译样例 - 文学

2 challenge   

n.挑战；v.向...挑战

参考例句：

• The job doesn't really challenge him.这项工作不能真正地考验他。
• She looked at me with challenge.她带着挑战的目光看着我。

3 exhaust   

vt.使衰竭，使筋疲力尽；用尽，耗尽，用完

参考例句：

• The climb will exhaust the boys.爬山会使那些男孩们疲惫不堪的。
• It will exhaust the nation's oil reserves.它会耗尽国家的石油储备。

4 media   

n.(medium的复数)媒体，新闻媒介，传播媒介

参考例句：

• The local media reported rioting across the country.当地媒体报道了全国范围的骚乱。
• His latest movie is being hyped up by the media.他新近的电影正被媒体大肆炒作。