你要知道-没有人能决定你的感受(4)

 你要知道

 

Something you have to know

 

It's OK to miss people that were once a huge part of your life, but that doesn't mean you need them in your life now.

 

想念曾经在你生活中很重要的人很正常，但这并不意味着你现在的生活需要他们。

 

Don't be stubborn¹. It will get you nowhere.

 

不要固执。这对你一点用都没有。

 

Take advantage of your 20s. It's the time to explore and discover. Don't feel rushed to "grow up." That's what your 30s, maybe 40s, are for.

 

利用好你20多岁的时光。这个年龄段你可以去探索、去发现，不要急着长大，那是30多岁或40多岁时该考虑的事。

 

No one else should dictate² how you feel.

 

没有人能决定你的感受。

1 stubborn   

adj.难以移动，去除的，固执的，顽固的

参考例句：

• I can not cope with that boy;he is stubborn.我对付不了那个孩子，他很固执。
• When he's in his stubborn mood,he isn't easily talked round.他那股牛劲上来了，一时不容易说服。

2 dictate   

v.口授；(使)听写；指令，指示，命令

参考例句：

• It took him a long time to dictate this letter.口述这封信花了他很长时间。
• What right have you to dictate to others?你有什么资格向别人发号施令？