低情商-不能明白他人的感受(1)

 The classic signs of low emotional intelligence

 

经典的低情商表现

 

Getting in lots of arguments.

 

时常陷入争吵

 

You probably know someone who always seems to get into arguments with others. Friends, family, co-workers and evenrandom strangers find themselves embroiled¹ in disputes with these argumentative individuals. Because low EQ individuals struggle to understand the emotions of others, they often find themselves arguing without considering how others are feeling.

 

也许你认识一些人，他们似乎很容易就和别人争论不休。朋友，家人，同事，甚至是陌生人，都发现他们和这些易于与他们产生争论的人陷入过纠纷。因为低情商的人很难理解他人的情绪，导致了争吵是因为他们总是无法考虑别人的想法。

 

Not understanding how others feel.

 

不能明白他人的感受

 

Low EQ people are often completely oblivious² to the feelings of other people. They don't get that their spousesmight be angry at them or that their co-workers are irritated. Not only thatbut they also feel very annoyed that other people expect them to know how they are feeling. Emotions, in general, tend to exasperate³ people with low EQ.

 

情商低的人往往完全不理会别人的感受。他们意识不到他们的配偶或同事可能会很生气。不仅如此，他们也对他们被希望能理解他人这点而十分愤怒。总的说来，低情商的人很情绪化且易怒。

1 embroiled   

adj.卷入的；纠缠不清的

参考例句：

• He became embroiled in a dispute with his neighbours. 他与邻居们发生了争执。
• John and Peter were quarrelling, but Mary refused to get embroiled. 约翰和彼得在争吵，但玛丽不愿卷入。 来自《简明英汉词典》

2 oblivious   

adj.易忘的，遗忘的，忘却的，健忘的

参考例句：

• Mother has become quite oblivious after the illness.这次病后，妈妈变得特别健忘。
• He was quite oblivious of the danger.他完全没有察觉到危险。

3 exasperate   

v.激怒，使（疾病）加剧，使恶化

参考例句：

• He shouted in an exasperate voice.他以愤怒的声音嚷着。
• The sheer futility of it all exasperates her.它毫无用处，这让她很生气。