低情商-责备别人的错误(3)

The classic signs of low emotionalintelligence

 

经典的低情商表现

 

Blaming others for mistakes.

 

责备别人的错误

 

People with low emotional intelligence have little insight into how their ownemotions might lead to problems.

 

低情商的人几乎意识不到他们自身的情绪可能导致的问题。

 

When things go wrong, their first instinct is to blame others.

 

当事情出问题时，他们的第一本能就是责怪别人。

 

They often blame characteristics of thesituation or the behaviors of other people for their actions.

 

他们总是把原因归咎于环境的特征或是其他人的行为。

 

They might suggest that they had noother choice for what they did and that other people are simply not understanding their situation. This tendency to not take responsibility oftenleaves them feeling bitter and victimized.

 

他们可能会说那时的行为是因为别无选择并且其他人都不懂他们所面临的处境。这类不负责的方式也常令他们感到痛苦并受伤。