真爱-真爱不是找到另一个自己(1)

True Love

 

真爱

 

True love is not about finding¹ yourself in another.

 

真爱不是找到另一个自己

 

Don't fall in love, or think you're inlove, just because you want to find yourself.

 

要是你想找的是另一个自己，就不要恋爱，也不要认为你在恋爱。

 

Your identity² is not to be someone's other half‒it's to be yourself!

 

你也不是他人的一部份---你就是你自己！

 

Don't get so swept up in your partnerthat you become them.

 

不要无条件的让别人改变自己。

 

You don't need to be the number one fan oftheir favorite band or read all the books they read.

 

你也不必附庸别人的喜好，读别人喜欢的书籍。

 

Keep your interests and hobbies and you'll be more interesting to, and interested in, your partner.

 

坚持自己的喜好，这样反而更能增加自己的魅力。

1 finding   

n.发现，发现物；调查的结果

参考例句：

• The finding makes some sense.该发现具有一定的意义。
• That's an encouraging finding.这是一个鼓舞人心的发现。

2 identity   

n.身份，本体，特征；同一(性)，一致

参考例句：

• He never revealed his identity.他从未暴露过自己的身份。
• He showed his identity card and went in.他把工作证亮了一下就进去了。