如何从失恋中走出来

 　　How To Survive A Break UpEvery relationship has its own stories to tell. However, no matter how unique your love stories are, breaking up always hit you at the curb¹. Yes, it hurts. Regardless if you have been together for a decade, a year, or a month - each broken relationship is painful for anyone who is in love. Let this short article help you with some relationship advices on how to easily survive a break up.

　　Actually, break up survival tips are found anywhere from the bookstore or from the Internet itself. Each author or relationship counselor² had their own tips and advices on how one that is totally broken at some point of his/her life can easily cope up with their break up scenarios⁴. In fact, if you are willing to let go and move on, coping with your break up will not take you too long to recover yourself back.

　　Consider these tips and congratulate yourself after you totally survive a break up.

　　Cry It OutThere's no harm with crying. It doesn't mean that you are a coward for locking yourself in your room or for sobbing⁵ out with your friends because you are heartbroken.

　　Believe me, no matter how men are considered tough, they do cry when they are heartbroken.

　　Just like how a rainbow appears after the rain, allowing yourself to accept the fact that your relationship is over, crying will as well help you to easily let go to that heartbroken burden you are currently into and move on.

　　Get Yourself OutAlthough locking yourself in your room at some point after your break up is good, deciding to go out after a few days of crying will easily help you to welcome a new phase in your life that wants you to stand up again and keep moving.

　　Night out with your buddies⁶ is a very helpful idea while it also allows you to meet new friends, new people, and open a new door for someone who is willing to stay. Who knows?

　　Enjoy Your SpaceBelieve me, it is NOT good to be friend with your EX after the break up. Well, you can, but not at the point after the painful break up scenario³ regardless if he/she the one who dumped you, or if you are the one who has done the dumping.

　　Space will easily help you both heal. Meaning, no calling, no emails, no Facebook or twitter check out. If you can, delete his/her contact, avoid sending emails, or delete him/her on your Facebook and twitter accounts to avoid from stressing out with whom is he/she talking or communicating in these social media sites.

　　Think What You DeserveIt's not just you who's been cheated, hurt, or maybe think that such relationship doesn't work out for you and your partner.

　　You can easily survive a break up if you know how to encourage yourself to stand up every time you fall. Always think what you truly deserve. If he dumped you or if things don't just work out well for both of you - then you know YOU deserve more than better.

　　Keep in mind that one of the best tips on how to survive a break up is learning how to love yourself more and believe that you deserve more than what your past relationship had given to you.

　　You might have lost someone whom you planned to live forever, but you will also surely meet someone who has better plans of living with you like how you always wanted. Remember, it takes two to tango. You can't stay in a relationship if the other side doesn't have the same ideas and plans like you do. Cheer up and learn from your every break up stories.

1 curb   

n.场外证券市场，场外交易；vt.制止，抑制

参考例句：

• I could not curb my anger.我按捺不住我的愤怒。
• You must curb your daughter when you are in church.你在教堂时必须管住你的女儿。

2 counselor   

n.顾问，法律顾问

参考例句：

• The counselor gave us some disinterested advice.顾问给了我们一些无私的忠告。
• Chinese commercial counselor's office in foreign countries.中国驻国外商务参赞处。

3 scenario   

n.剧本，脚本；概要

参考例句：

• But the birth scenario is not completely accurate.然而分娩脚本并非完全准确的。
• This is a totally different scenario.这是完全不同的剧本。

4 scenarios   

n.[意]情节；剧本；事态；脚本

参考例句：

• Further, graphite cores may be safer than non-graphite cores under some accident scenarios. 再者，根据一些事故解说，石墨堆芯可比非石墨堆芯更安全一些。 来自英汉非文学 - 环境法 - 环境法
• Again, scenarios should make it clear which modes are acceptable to users in various contexts. 同样，我们可以运用场景剧本来搞清楚在不同情境下哪些模式可被用户接受。 来自About Face 3交互设计精髓

5 sobbing   

<主方>Ⅰ adj.湿透的

参考例句：

• I heard a child sobbing loudly. 我听见有个孩子在呜呜地哭。
• Her eyes were red with recent sobbing. 她的眼睛因刚哭过而发红。

6 buddies   

n.密友( buddy的名词复数 )；同伴；弟兄；（用于称呼男子，常带怒气）家伙v.（如密友、战友、伙伴、弟兄般）交往( buddy的第三人称单数 )；做朋友；亲近（…）；伴护艾滋病人

参考例句：

• We became great buddies. 我们成了非常好的朋友。 来自辞典例句
• The two of them have become great buddies. 他们俩成了要好的朋友。 来自辞典例句