职场处事必备之原则

 　　职场上的同事们都希望能在办公室里获得重视，从而得到提升和加薪。但并不是一味的引人注意就可以获得重视和大家的尊敬，很多时候都要讲究原则。

　　1. Know what you believe in and stick to it. Nothing loses other's respect quicker than inconsistency.

　　清楚并坚持自己的想法。左右摇摆会让你在别人心目中的形象大打折扣。

　　2. Keep your distance. Be friendly but not over-familiar. Don't confide¹ intimate details to your colleagues.

　　保持距离，友好却不要太亲近，不要向同事袒露太私人的生活细节。

　　3. Keep your business to yourself. Don't share all your problems. Even if you resolve them you'll have left the impression that you're indecisive or unable to cope with pressure.

　　自己的事情自己做，不要事无巨细都向同事请教。因为即使你已经解决了问题，你还是会给人优柔寡断或无法面对压力的不良印象。

　　4. Don't ask anyone to do anything you wouldn't do yourself.

　　连自己都不想做的事情就不要麻烦别人去做。

　　5. Communicate-simply and often.

　　经常与同事进行简单的沟通。

　　6. Keep your eyes on the objective.

　　一直盯住你的目标。

　　7. Don't get drawn² into colleagues' personal lives.

　　不要纠缠于同事的私人生活中。

　　8. Keep cool. Don't respond instantly or say yes to everything.

　　保持冷静，对听到的任何事情不要立刻表态。

　　9. Keep your head. A calm presence is an invaluable³ asset.

　　保持理智，镇定是你工作制胜的法宝。

　　10. Be good at your job. Know that you're good. Self-respect is the key. It'll show up in the way people deal with you.

　　做好你的工作，相信自己能胜任。自信是关键，这也会影响到人们对你的态度。

　　11. Accept that you can't please all the people all the time-or even some of the people all of the time.

　　承认这个事实：你不能总是让所有的人满意，甚至是总让一部分人满意都很难。

1 confide   

v.向某人吐露秘密

参考例句：

• I would never readily confide in anybody.我从不轻易向人吐露秘密。
• He is going to confide the secrets of his heart to us.他将向我们吐露他心里的秘密。

2 drawn   

v.拖，拉，拔出；adj.憔悴的，紧张的

参考例句：

• All the characters in the story are drawn from life.故事中的所有人物都取材于生活。
• Her gaze was drawn irresistibly to the scene outside.她的目光禁不住被外面的风景所吸引。

3 invaluable   

adj.无价的，非常宝贵的，极为贵重的

参考例句：

• A computer would have been invaluable for this job.一台计算机对这个工作的作用会是无法估计的。
• This information was invaluable to him.这个消息对他来说是非常宝贵的。