情到深处情转薄

情到深处情转薄
The feeling of love，always at the beginning was very sweet， I felt a much more others to follow suit， one more person to help you share， you are finally no longer alone， at least one person thinking of you， you， no matter what the situation， As long as we can together， that is good， but slowly， with the deeper understanding of each other， you begin to discover each other's shortcomings， then the problem occurred one after another， you start trouble， tired or even want to avoid， it is said that love like a stone in the seizure¹， the Director would like to find a suitable for their own， but you know when and how it can be picked up? She's right for you， then you may also suitable for her?
In fact， the same love as terrazzo， perhaps the time had just picked up， so you are not satisfied with， but keep in mind is flexible， a lot of things can be changed， as long as you want， have the courage， rather than pick up unknown everywhere stones， is not as good as good will already have their own polished stone， you start grinding it?
Many people think that because of the feelings of light， so talent will become lazy． Wrong！ In fact， inertia² is the first to be conquered， so will the feelings of the．
In a dinner occasion， it was suggested that shrimp³ eat more points on the body， and this time all of a sudden there is a middle－aged man said： Ten years ago， when my wife or my girlfriend， she said eat shrimp 10 ， I stripped to her 20！ Now， if she wanted me to help her peel shrimp shell， a joke， I could not even help her interest did not undress， but also shrimp shell stripping child's cry！
Hear it? It is no wonder that more and more people just want to talk about a lifetime of love， but has been reluctant to enter into marriage． Because marriage easy to become lazy． If everyone is too lazy speech， too lazy to listen to， too lazy to create pleasant， gentle and considerate too lazy， then between the husband and wife or lover， how will gradually drifting further and further away so silent? So， please keep in mind： the dynamic of love， is the need for appropriate irrigation hospitality， love， it is not laziness Oh！
There are a pair of lovers， which is similar to the meal after work， shopping， but the girls because the company delayed the meeting， when she arrived at a time when has more than 30 minutes late， and his boyfriend is not happy about that： every time all this， what I did not mind， and I will no longer wait． That， the girls eventually the collapse⁴ of the Levees Broke， she thought： Perhaps， they had no future！
The same in the same location， another couple is facing the same situation； when the girls arrived half an hour late， and his boyfriend， said： I would like some help out of it！ Then his face rainwater girls and girls to take off his jacket was covered in at the moment， the girl in tears！ But the flow of tears her cheeks is warm， you feel it? In fact， love， hate is often only one in our study between！ Love to know how tolerance⁵ is a lot of things may just change your mind only！ Do you understand it?
爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，总觉得多一个人陪，多一个人帮你分担，你终于不再孤单了，至少有一个人想着你、恋着你，不论做什么事情，只要能在一起，就是好的，但是慢慢的，随着彼此的认识愈深，你开始发现了对方的缺点，于是问题一个接着一个发生，你开始烦、累甚至想要逃避，有人说爱情就像在捡石头，总想捡到一个适合自己的，但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?她适合你，那你又适合她吗?
其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，但是记住人是有弹性的，很多事情是可以改变的，只要你有心、有勇气，与其到处去捡未知的石头，还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨光，你开始磨了吗?
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，所以人才会变得懒惰。错！其实是人先被惰性征服，所以感情才会变淡的。
在某个聚餐的场合，有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好，这时候有个中年男人忽然说：十年前，当我的老婆还是我的女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑，我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！
听到了吗?难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。如果每个人都懒得讲话、懒得倾听、懒得制造惊喜、懒得温柔体贴，那么夫妻或是情人之间，又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢?所以请记住：有活力的爱情，是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！
有一对情侣，相约下班后去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了，当她冒着雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟，他的男朋友很不高兴的说：每次都这样，现在我什么心情也没了，我以后再也不会等了。那间，女孩终于决堤崩溃，她心里想：或许，他们再也没有未来了！
同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境；女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：我想一定忙坏了吧！接着他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上，此刻，女孩流泪了！但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的，你体会到了吗?其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！爱要懂得宽容很多事可能只是在于你心境的转变罢了！你懂了吗?

1 seizure   

n.没收；占有；抵押

参考例句：

• The seizure of contraband is made by customs.那些走私品是被海关没收的。
• The courts ordered the seizure of all her property.法院下令查封她所有的财产。

2 inertia   

adj.惰性，惯性，懒惰，迟钝

参考例句：

• We had a feeling of inertia in the afternoon.下午我们感觉很懒。
• Inertia carried the plane onto the ground.飞机靠惯性着陆。

3 shrimp   

n.虾，小虾；矮小的人

参考例句：

• When the shrimp farm is built it will block the stream.一旦养虾场建起来，将会截断这条河流。
• When it comes to seafood,I like shrimp the best.说到海鲜，我最喜欢虾。

4 collapse   

vi.累倒；昏倒；倒塌；塌陷

参考例句：

• The country's economy is on the verge of collapse.国家的经济已到了崩溃的边缘。
• The engineer made a complete diagnosis of the bridge's collapse.工程师对桥的倒塌做了一次彻底的调查分析。

5 tolerance   

n.宽容；容忍，忍受；耐药力；公差

参考例句：

• Tolerance is one of his strengths.宽容是他的一个优点。
• Human beings have limited tolerance of noise.人类对噪音的忍耐力有限。