女人最希望男人拥有哪10个品质？

 　　Qualities Women Look For In A Man

　　女人最希望在男人身上看到的特质

　　男人身上的什么特质最受到女人的青睐呢？广大的女同胞和男同胞快来普特英语的英语文摘看看你的他和你自己拥有其中几条呢？

　　Every woman has a laundry list of attributes they desire in a partner. Here are 10 desirable qualities that women look for in a man -- from the way he walks into a room to never breaking a promise -- and the reasons why every man should aspire¹ to display these attributes to the opposite sex.

　　每个女人都想在她们的另一半身上看到她们希望其具备的一长串特质。这里有10条女人想在男人身上看到的品质特征——从他走进房间的方式和从不食言的作风——以及为什么每个男人都应该在女人面前展示这些特质的原因。

　　1. Be Humorous

　　幽默

　　Women want a man who can make them laugh, or at least show them the humor in even the most uncomfortable situation. The ability to joke at the stresses of life, and being in a relationship, is a must.

　　女人想要一个能够使她们开怀大笑，或者是能够在她们不适的情况下展现出幽默感的男人。像这样在生活的压力下依旧能开玩笑的能力，不论在生活中还是在一段关系的维持中都是必须具备的。

　　2. Be A Teacher

　　当一位老师

　　Women often want a man who’ll give them a peek² into another world. Teach them something they don’t know about a subject you’re passionate³ about.

　　女人通常希望男人能使她们窥探到另一个世界，教她们一些你所热爱的但是她们不了解的事情。

　　3. Be A Good Dad (Eventually)

　　做一个好父亲（最后）

　　Being a good dad involves qualities like patience and compassion⁵ -- qualities women want in a partner for their own needs and the eventual⁴ needs of their kids.

　　做一个好父亲所需要的品质包括耐心和同情心——这是女人自己对于伴侣的需求和他们的孩子的最终需求。

　　4. Be Kind

　　友好

　　Kindness is consistently ranked as one of the best and sexiest qualities a man can have. A man who treats you right, is nice to other people and gives back to his community is a catch.

　　友好一直是一个男人能拥有的最优秀最性感的品质。如果一个男人十分宠爱你，对其他人也很好，并且能回报社会做出贡献，那么这个男人是十分抢手的。

　　5. Be Generous

　　慷慨

　　There are two different types of generosity⁶ . The first is being generous with possessions -- donating gifts or money to charities or those less fortunate. The second is being generous with time -- spending time with people in need of a sympathetic ear or a shoulder to cry on, or with the special woman in your life.

　　有两种不同种类的慷慨。第一种是在财务方面的慷慨——给慈善机构和那些不幸的人捐赠礼物和金钱。第二种是在时间方面的慷慨——愿意花时间与那些需要被倾听和安慰的人身上，这个人或者是你生命中特别的女人。

　　6. Be Mysterious

　　神秘

　　It’s true that women love excitement, especially in a new relationship, and there is no better way to keep that excitement alive than being slightly secretive. In the later stages of a relationship, keep it mysterious with things like weekend plans or surprise gifts for special occasions.

　　在一段全新的关系中，女人容易爱激动这是事实，但要保持这样的激情最好的办法是留有一些秘密。在一段关系发展到后来阶段，可以尝试用特别的周末计划、惊喜的礼物或者是参与特殊的场合来保持神秘感。

　　7. Be Dependable

　　可靠

　　Women want a man who’ll keep a promise and stay true to his word, even if it’s something as simple as dinner plans or a weekend getaway.

　　女人想要的是一个许下承诺，然后信守诺言的男人，即使是像晚餐安排和周末度假这样一些简单的事。

　　8. Be Faithful

　　忠诚

　　Prove from the start that you’re faithfully committed -- watch that wandering eye in public, and don't go exchanging flirtatious⁷ texts with old flames -- and she’ll do the same.

　　从一开始就证明你的承诺是忠诚的——注意在公众场合下眼神不要游离到别人身上，也不要跟前任互相发调情短信。这样而她也会忠诚于你。

　　9. Be Confident

　　自信

　　Confidence is crucial. A confident man can handle unfamiliar⁸ situations with ease and assurance, and won't be rattled⁹ if he commits a minor¹⁰ gaffe¹¹, even if everyone's watching.

　　自信是至关重要的。一个自信的人可以泰然自若地处理各种不熟悉的情形，即使在别人的目光下犯了一个小错误，他也不会惊慌失措。

　　10. Be Passionate

　　充满激情

　　Be passionate about her completely -- show interest in her not only sexually but emotionally as well. Take an interest in the things that make her tick -- from her work to her volunteer work, her hobbies and life goals.

　　对她充满热情——不仅仅在性方面表现出兴趣，还要在情感上表现出热情的态度。同时对她要做的事也感兴趣，这些事情包括从她的工作到她的志愿者服务工作，以及她的爱好和生活目标。

1 aspire   

vi.(to，after)渴望，追求，有志于

参考例句：

• Living together with you is what I aspire toward in my life.和你一起生活是我一生最大的愿望。
• I aspire to be an innovator not a follower.我迫切希望能变成个开创者而不是跟随者。

2 peek   

vi.偷看，窥视；n.偷偷的一看，一瞥

参考例句：

• Larry takes a peek out of the window.赖瑞往窗外偷看了一下。
• Cover your eyes and don't peek.捂上眼睛，别偷看。

3 passionate   

adj.热情的，热烈的，激昂的，易动情的，易怒的，性情暴躁的

参考例句：

• He is said to be the most passionate man.据说他是最有激情的人。
• He is very passionate about the project.他对那个项目非常热心。

4 eventual   

adj.最后的，结局的，最终的

参考例句：

• Several schools face eventual closure.几所学校面临最终关闭。
• Both parties expressed optimism about an eventual solution.双方对问题的最终解决都表示乐观。

5 compassion   

n.同情，怜悯

参考例句：

• He could not help having compassion for the poor creature.他情不自禁地怜悯起那个可怜的人来。
• Her heart was filled with compassion for the motherless children.她对于没有母亲的孩子们充满了怜悯心。

6 generosity   

n.大度，慷慨，慷慨的行为

参考例句：

• We should match their generosity with our own.我们应该像他们一样慷慨大方。
• We adore them for their generosity.我们钦佩他们的慷慨。

7 flirtatious   

adj.爱调情的，调情的，卖俏的

参考例句：

• a flirtatious young woman 卖弄风情的年轻女子
• Her flirtatious manners are intended to attract. 她的轻浮举止是想引人注意。 来自《简明英汉词典》

8 unfamiliar   

adj.陌生的，不熟悉的

参考例句：

• I am unfamiliar with the place and the people here.我在这儿人地生疏。
• The man seemed unfamiliar to me.这人很面生。

9 rattled   

慌乱的，恼火的

参考例句：

• The truck jolted and rattled over the rough ground. 卡车嘎吱嘎吱地在凹凸不平的地面上颠簸而行。
• Every time a bus went past, the windows rattled. 每逢公共汽车经过这里，窗户都格格作响。

10 minor   

adj.较小(少)的，较次要的；n.辅修学科；vi.辅修

参考例句：

• The young actor was given a minor part in the new play.年轻的男演员在这出新戏里被分派担任一个小角色。
• I gave him a minor share of my wealth.我把小部分财产给了他。

11 gaffe   

n.（社交上令人不快的）失言，失态

参考例句：

• I had no idea of the gaffe which I was committing.我不清楚我犯了什么错误。
• He made an embarrassing gaffe at the convention last weekend.他在上周末的会议上出了洋相，狼狈不堪。