爱也要注重自己的底线
Love to have a bottom line， love is also a lot of investment risk of failure， pain is unavoidable， and handles the issue well， money is even more than the loss of long suffering， and so in love the beginning， you at least bear in mind the bottom line of the following six． Life does not love a love a person， most of them only have a successful， of course， love is important that the process of feeling， but we should also remember not to let the loss of love so that their long－term slump， and this requires that we must first knowledge in order to take preventive measures：
Do not lose the self． Do not think that love is two people into one person． The most beautiful love in the strongest， it is because the other party can be strongly felt different from you and other people's personality， your unique self is the most basic reasons to attract each other．Not to alienate friends． In fact， good love should be the basis of friendship， friendship， as if the background color of love， perhaps， when love is not， you will not like the only people who love so strange， after breaking up． Moreover， circle of friends is that you maintain a healthy growth of personality based on the promotion of the cause， but also your feelings in a period after the loss of the opportunity to regain the love．They should not let themselves not the charm． Not to indulge in love and forget the self－improvement， self－modification of forgotten instruments， have forgotten the words and deeds to maintain elegance， the charm of it all is the basis for you， no love will be the charm lopsided．They should not let themselves lose control of the property． No money is totally unacceptable． Economic and social， you can not survive the loss of the fundamental． Real estate book you do not just write the name of the person most beloved， your rights and interests should also be faithfully reflected in the above， when love is not nothing you will not． To remember that a certain degree of wealth will make you faster access to the well－being．Not to lose sight of their own bodies． The first wealth is health is the greatest freedom． If you really want to enjoy in the pre－marital physical integration happy in love， do not forget to wear a condom． Women should protect themselves， do not feel in the future health and happiness when it is too late．Do not overlook the family． Love is far from all， and the family longer， if the battle of love with family， then you must not forget that love is the closest to the selfless love of parents and， most selfish love is love．
爱也要有底线，爱情其实也是风险很大的投资，一旦失败，免不了伤痛，而处理得不好，比失去钱财更令人长久地痛苦，因此，在初涉爱河之初，你至少要牢记以下这6条底线。人生不会只爱一次只爱一个人，大多只能有一次成功，固然爱重要的是过程是感觉，但我们也应记住不要让失去的爱让自己长久一蹶不振，而这就要求我们必须先有所认识方能防患于未然：
不要失去自我。别以为爱情就是两个人变成一个人。爱情最强烈最美丽的时候，是因为对方能强烈地感觉到你与别人的不同个性，独特的自我正是你吸引对方的最基本原因。
不要疏远朋友圈。好的爱情其实应是在友谊基础上产生，如果把友谊作为爱情的底色，或许当爱不在时，你们不会象仅有爱情的人分手后那么陌生。更何况朋友圈是你保持健康个性促进事业成长的基础，也是你在失去一段感情后重获爱情的机会。
不要使自己没了魅力。不要因耽于爱情而忘记自我提升、忘记了修饰自我仪表、忘记了保持优雅的言行，这一切是你魅力的基础，没有了魅力爱情也会渐行渐远。
不要使自己失去对财产的控制。没有金钱是万万不能的。经济社会，你不能丢失生存的根本。房产存折别都只写你至爱的人的名字，你的权益也应如实地反应在上面，当爱不在时你才不致一无所有。要记住，有一定的财富会使你更快地获得幸福。
不要忽视自己的身体。健康是第一财富是最大的自由。如果你真想在婚前享受共浴爱河心身融合的快乐，别忘了戴上安全套。女人更应该保护自己，别在今后感觉不到健康的快乐时才后悔莫及。
不要忽视亲情。爱情远不是全部，而亲情更长久，如果爱情须与亲情对决，那么你不要忘记最接近无私的爱是父母之爱，而最自私的爱其实是爱情。 |