要知道生活并非绝对公平。接受既定命运，改变你所能改变的。

　　2. Think before you act. A moment of carelessness or anger can cause years of anguish and regret.

　　三思而后行。为一时的疏忽与愤怒所付的代价是经以数年的痛苦悔恨。

　　3. Look for the beauty in life, in people, in nature, and in yourself.

　　发掘生活中无处不在的美，在大自然里，在他人中，在自己身上。

　　4. Appreciate what you have: the people, the opportunities, the material possessions.

　　珍视你所拥有的一切：人、机遇、物质财富。

　　5. Make the effort to have fun: it's a great way to bond with others, and it makes some of the best memories.

　　努力营造生活的乐趣：与人交往是件美妙的事情，它将留给你美好的回忆。

　　6. Set aside some time for yourself. Do some thing you enjoy without feeling even a little guilty.

　　留时间给自己。潇潇洒洒、无所顾忌地做点自己喜欢的事情。

　　7. Accept others without judgment. Everyone is unique, and it's okay to be different.

　　不偏不倚地接受他人。每个人都是独一无二的，个体差异实属正常。

　　8. Forgive. Bitterness and resentment hurt you more than the person you direct them at.

　　宽容。愤怒和仇恨远比你所憎恨的人更伤人。

　　9. Learn. Open your mind to new ideas and activities, and don't be afraid to try.

　　学习。勇于接受新观点新理念，不要畏惧新的尝试。

　　10. Dream. Make plans, believe in yourself, and go for what you want.

　　梦想。制订计划，坚信自己，为你的梦想全力以赴。