要不得的坏习惯-完美主义和自我怀疑(在线收听) |
Habits You'd Be Better Off Without
你需要戒掉的坏习惯
Perfectionism and self-doubt
完美主义和自我怀疑
Recently, someone said to me, "Perfectionism is actually Failurism."
Why? Because when you are a perfectionist, you constantly doubt yourself.
You look for the failure in your life and attempt to fix it. Then you have to deal with all the failures that crop up from your attempt to fix the last failure.
It is a destructive and unnecessary cycle.
If you're always focusing on the negative, your mind begins to identify with that. Why not try focusing mostly on the positive?
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