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Voice both the pros and cons to a trusted cohort

 

向值得信任的同事说出两种选择的利弊

 

Speaking the considerations out loud will help you make sure you understand the full implications of either a yes or a no answer.

 

Every yes answer increases your workload, and every no answer may cut off an opportunity you need down the road.

 

Talking it out also buys you time.