He/she will secretly resent you

 

他们可能会偷偷的怨恨你

 

A build up of criticism can lead to closeted resentment. Resentment shows up when you most need your partner—on your deathbed or co-signing on a loan.

 

Resentment is worse than hate because,like the background music in an elevator, you don't always notice. It's there while everything else looks normal.

 

Walking around with resentment is painful and makes others vulnerable to future hurt.