Create new memories without him.

 

制造一些新回忆

 

Go back to that coffee shop where you used to hang or that beach where you used to swim and enjoy each other's company. But this time, go there and make new memories with nobody but yourself. It may sting a bit but it will prevent you from associating things and places to him (and you'll end up reclaiming your freedom in the process).

 

回到你过去经常逗留的咖啡厅或者过去经常和他一起相伴游泳嬉戏的海滩，但是这次，尝试着制造一些只属于自己的回忆。这个过程或许会让你感到些许心痛，但却可以防止你将过去的一切和他联系起来。(经过这个步骤之后，你会感到重获自由)

 

Focus on getting yourself back together.

 

努力做回真实的自己

 

A man may have broke you but you can be whole on your own. Of course, you'd want a boyfriend again soon but that doesn't mean that you'd settle for less. Take your time so when you're ready for your forever relationship, it will finally be worth it.

 

这个人可能伤了你的心，但你仍可以靠自己独立。当然，你可能想着尽快再找一个男友，但这并不意味着你的择友标准就要降低。慢慢来，当你准备好开始一段长期恋情了，会发现这是值得的。