Love yourself

 

爱自己

 

 

Forget always needing approval from others.

忘了总需要别人赞同的想法

 

The only person you should seek approval from is you. You might think that fulfilling the expectations of others will make you happy, but in a long run, you will start resenting them or yourself for not truly living for yourself.

 

你应该寻求赞同的人就只有你自己，也许你会认为满足别人的期待会让你觉得快乐，但是长久看来，你会怨恨他们或者你自己活得不是你自己。

 

Forget what others think of you.

抛开别人对你的看法

 

What others think can serve as a reference for your learning, but what they think shouldn't bother you to the point where it brings you down or changes who you are. Every individual has different values and beliefs that make them think they way they do; therefore they will never truly understand your situation base on your values, beliefs and life experiences. As long as you know your own purpose and motivations, what others think doesn’t really matter.

 

别人的看法可以作为你学习的参考，但是别人的想法不应该干扰你，这样会让你失望，或者改变你自己。每一个个体都有自己的价值，以及有让他们想出他们的行事方式的信念。因此，他们绝不能真正地基于你的价值观来了解你的情况。只有你自己知道你自己的目的和动机，别人怎么想的都不重要。