会让自己变得更好还是更差？

 

Does your partner encourage you to beyour best self, or does he or she get intimidated by any triumphs and feel moresecure when you're not putting your best foot forward?

 

你的伴侣是否鼓励你成为最好的自己，或者他/她对你的成功感到有压力，反而在你不能施展拳脚的时候更有安全感？

 

Do we really accept one another?

 

我们真的认可对方吗？

 

There will always be things you want tochange about the people in your life, but no one should be in a situation wherethey feel they aren't allowed to be authentic and accepted as the unique,special (yet flawed) person they are.

 

在你生命中总有一些人你希望能够改变他，然而没有一个人必须理所当然地处于一个让他们感觉到无法成为自我的状态中，他们希望自己能够是独一无二的，特别的，“哪怕有缺陷”。

 

Who am I?

 

我是谁？

 

How can you know if your partner is a goodmatch if you have no idea who you are?

 

如果连你自己都不够了解自己，那你如何知道你的伴侣能够成为你的好搭档？