Do I really trust my partner?

 

我真的信任我的伴侣吗？

 

For some, the immediate response to thiscan be devastating. If you're one of them, it's time to ask why and how you can begin to build or rebuild trust. Without it, there’s no chance.

 

对于某些人来说，对此第一反应是震惊的。如果你是其中之一，你应该找找原因并且想想怎样建立或者重建信任。除此之外别无他法。

 

Am I attracted to my partner?

 

我被我的伴侣所吸引吗？

 

Physical attraction is hardly the mostimportant component in a relationship, but forcing yourself to be in arelationship with someone who you're not attracted to — just because it's comfortable or "perfect on paper" isn't fair to anyone. You will feel resentful and they will feel rejected.

 

在一段感情中，身体的吸引力几乎不是最重要的因素，但是会让你自己因此与一个并不真正吸引你的人建立一段感情--仅仅因为在一起很舒服或者“看起来很完美”，这对大家都不公平。你会变得很易怒而对方会感到被排斥。