You are asking for it.

　　你自找的。作死。

　　Have it coming 自作自受

　　He had it coming because he had an affair with another girl.

　　他和另一个女生搞外遇，真是作死。

　　Deserve it 应得

　　Take the money. You deserve it.

　　把钱拿着。这是你应得的。

　　He wanted some, and he got it.

　　不作死就不会死。