瞬间秒杀听力 第255期:不健康的完美主义(在线收听) |
In school, you have a clear goal to work for, your efforts have clear criteria,
and the questions you encounter
have standard answers.
In such certain environment,
any mistakes can be avoided,
and such environment has spawned
an unhealthy perfectionism.
In the workplace, there are no standard solutions
for many of the tasks you take over,
therefore making mistakes is inevitable.
People who are accustomed to perfectionism
blame themselves too much for each mistake they make,
and even feel discouraged,
and this will not help them make progress.
在学校里,你有明确的努力目标,
而且你的努力有明确的评判标准,
你遇到的问题都有标准答案。
在这样一个无比确定的环境中,
任何错误都是可以避免的,
而这样的环境催生了一种不健康的完美主义。
在职场中,
你接手的很多任务并没有标准的解决方案,
犯错是不可避免的。
习惯了完美主义的人
对每一个错误都表现得过分自责,
甚至感到气馁,而这会让人裹足不前 |
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