西部落：如何俘获你的白马王子?（在线收听）

Did you know? There are a hundred million single Americans, but meeting the right one can seem impossible. So ladies, if you've ever needed advice on how to get the guy, then you'll wanna check this out. It's a new reality show on ABC that follows four young women looking for love in San Francisco.Helping them out in their manhunts are the show's two love coaches, if you will, Teresa Strasser and JD Robredo, (Hey) good morning to you both.

Thanks for having us.

Good morning,Alice

You've got the love coaches you?

We are.

All right Jeddy, this is,er, we are saying it's a reality show, but no one's getting voted off, no one's getting booted or anything like that.

Totally.

Talk about the women that are on the show.

In this, it's very much the entire reality show, because our goal on this is really to document the dating lives of four single women in San Francisco, how long the way for Teresa and I to coach them along, give them some advice on meeting the right guy and it's not(hmm) it's not about how to get a guy, it's how to get the guy, (the guy)how to get the be-right guy for you.

And another thing that makes our show different, a lot of these reality shows-- the girls are like 21, (yeah) it's a dinner list from Bakers' field, (ouch) our girls, they are not~our girls are women, they are in their 30s, they are professionals, and you know, when my mom got married at 24, she was about 5 minutes away from being an old maid, but you had to get married.

Crack/Quite about the time, right.

Gen(yeah)..generationally, that's really changed, now being single in your 30s and being a career person is totally normal, so dating in your 30s as a single women is really general, this is the first generation that you really face that.

Yeah, it's...a sea change.

Well, let me, let me put all...see what you bring to the table, (OK) with you guys er, you know, the love coaches,(yeah) I love that title. Er,Carrie Bradshaw, (Yeah,Yeah)Will you consider like Carrie Bradshaw, of course, from the Sex and the City.Why?

That's right. Well, I'm about twice her size with half her shoes, but I am a single's columnist, I write about my own experiences. Every dating mistake he could make I've made it, written about it, processed it, and hopefully the girls can benefit from many of my dating tragedies.

Ok, Jeddy, you got the guy's prospect, but you're happily married.

I do. Well, You know I'm the married version of the single guys that these girls are dating, so I'm the only one that can really tell them what's going on in the mind of the guy across the table and how do you get the guy from single dater to happily married which is where I fortunately got to.

What a new little baby boy!

Yes, I do, the little baby boy. (Yes)A great and credible edition of my life, one of the things in my wife when I talk about a lot is that having our son, the most important thing we can offer him is our marriage, is our relationship, so it's even more important than ever(have a nice solid) that we have a great relationship because that's we have to offer him.

Well, let's see you two love coaches in action how to get the guy, here it is.

You could fill every seat in this stadium with an available guy, twice.

* with all those guys how do you find the guy.

Exactly.

It's a number's game, you are gonna go in more dates and you could possibly imagine. You are cute teams and that's gonna be worn out.

So consider yourselves off the bench and officially in the game.

Off the bench, in the game,

Get in the game.

Let's get some tips now ,Teresa, ok, what's the~the single best piece of advice you can give woman when it comes to dating.

Ok, I would say if you have a check list and every women I know has had one, I've had one, and it's six pages long, and it's every qualification a guy's gotta be a left-handed, kayaking, red hair, lawyer, over six feet, you know what I mean, chuck that, pick a few things that are, you know, non-negotiables, and open your mind because the universe could bring you something way better than what you could have planned for yourself.

You never know what love is gonna look like, so assuming (what) you do is the first mistake.

And it's a number's game, I heard you say.

Oh, absolutely, volume dating is something we recommend, I mean you wouldn't apply for one job, not get in and then decide I'm unemployable, I'm gonna stay home.

Yeah,ok, Jeddy,for the......from the guy's point of view(yeah),er,what do you bring to the table where,where this is concerned, to keep the light?

Well, you know what, on a, on a first date especially don't bring a lot of baggage with you, it's one of the tough things about being a single woman in your 30s is that you have a lot of dating experience. On the first date, I don't particularly wanna hear about your ex-boyfriends,(very good) I don't wanna hear about the fact that cheese cake makes you gassy, (leave out all these disorders.Yeah!we know,what the~),you would be amazed when people talk about in their first dates, as a guy keep it light, have a good time, if you start talking about your dating history, I'm probably never gonna call.

And chivalry is not dead, right?

Chivalry is not dead, it's very tough for a guy, most of the time a guy wants to buy a date on the first meal, on the first dinner, but I don't know if that's ok with you, if I buy you a dinner, is that gonna make you feel like I think you can buy your own dinner, let me buy a dinner, guys pick up the check, women let us pick up the check, we want to.

Add a compliment. You gotta, gotta get the guys feel~

Yes I learn this from Jeddy, (I didn't know that). Yes, I know. He taught me this and I use it all the time on my boyfriend and it never fails.

You know If you~you spend so much time as a woman getting ready for a date, wanna look good, so do we, and we are incredibly insecure about how we dress, how we look, (oh, please) we are, we wanna look good, pay us a compliment

All right.