《他没那么喜欢你》精讲 10 他们结婚是对自己没信心（在线收听）

Neil: Thy’re not. You know why? Because if you are so legitimately happy, honestly you wouldn’t feel the need to make a big show out of it. You wouldn’t have to broadcast it. They do it because they’re insecure and they think getting married is what they’re supposed to be doing. So they’re lying to themselves and to other people. Seriously. Think about you and your friends. Okay? Those women you have great relationships with, you’re close to them, some of them you’ve known for years, but you don’t feel the need to write a $45 check to the state of Maryland for a friendship certificate.

Beth: Yeah. No, I get it.

Neil: Right? Why should it be any different, you know, with me and you? We’re very happy, I love you, I’m committed to you, we have a great life, you know?

Beth: Yes, you’re right.

Neil: Why can’t we just be happy?

Beth: You’re right.

Neil: I’m gonna get you some more tea.

Beth: Okay.