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The Secrets of Mastering Emotions

控制情绪的秘诀

The tides advance; the tides recede . Winter goes and summer comes. Summer wanes

and the cold increases. The sun rises; the sun sets. The moon is full; the moon is black. The birds

arrive; the birds depart. Flowers bloom; flowers fade. Seeds are sown; harvests are reaped. All

nature is a circle of moods and I am a part of nature and so, like the tides, my moods will rise; my

moods will fall.

It is one of nature's tricks, little understood, that each day I awaken with moods that have

changed from yesterday. Yesterday's joy will become today's sadness; yet today's sadness will

grow into tomorrow's joy. Inside me is a wheel, constantly turning from sadness to joy, from

exultation to depression, from happiness to melancholy. Like the flowers, today's full bloom of

joy will fade and withers into despondency , yet I will remember that as today's dead flower

carries the seed of tomorrow's bloom so, too, does today's sadness carry the seed of tomorrow's

joy.

And how will I master these emotions so that each day will be productive?For unless my

mood is right the day will be a failure. Trees and plants depend on the weather to flourish but I

make my own weather, yea I transport it with me.

And how will I master my emotions so that every day is a happy day, and a productive one? I

will learn this secret of the ages:Weak is he who permits his thoughts to control his actions; strong

is he who forces his actions to control his thoughts. Each day, when I awaken, I will follow this

plan of battle before I am captured by the forces of sadness, self-pity and failure —

If I feel depressed I will sing.

If I feel sad I will laugh.

If I feel ill I will double my labor.

If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.

If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.

If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.

If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.

If I feel incompetent I will remember past success.

If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.

Henceforth, I will know that only those with inferior ability can always be at their best, and I

am not inferior. There will be days when I must constantly struggle against forces which would

tear me down. Those such as despair and sadness are simple to recognize but there are others

which approach with a smile and the hand of friendship and they can also destroy me. Against

them, too, I must never relinquish control —

If I become overconfident I will recall my failures.

If I overindulge I will think of past hungers.

If I feel complacency I will remember my competition.

If I enjoy moments of greatness I will remember moments of shame.

If I feel all-powerful I will try to stop the wind.

If I attain great wealth I will remember one unfed mouth.

If I become overly proud I will remember a moment of weakness.

If I feel my skill is unmatched I will look at the stars.

Henceforth I will recognize and identify the mystery of moods in all mankind, and in me.

From this moment I am prepared to control whatever personality awakes in me each day. I will

master moods through positive action and when I master my moods I will control my destiny. I

will become master of myself. I will become great.

潮起潮落,冬去夏来,暑消寒长,日升日落,月圆月缺,雁来雁往,花开花谢,播种

收获。自然万物都在循环变化中,而我,自然之子,和潮汐一样,我的情绪也时落时涨。

这是大自然耍的一个难以理解的戏法:每天我都带着不同于昨天的情绪醒来。昨天的

欢乐变成今天的哀伤,可是今天的哀伤又会变成明天的欢乐。在我的内心有一只巨大的轮

子,不断地从哀伤转向欢乐,从狂喜转向沮丧,从幸福转向忧郁。跟鲜花一样,今天盛开

的欢乐,会凋谢枯萎成为沮丧。可是我将记住,今天枯萎的花朵携带着明天绽放的种子。

所以同样地,今天的哀伤也携带着明天欢乐的种子。

我怎样控制好情绪,让每一天都卓有成效呢?因为除非我的情绪对头,否则当天就会

以失败告终。树木植物靠天气茂盛,我要创造属于自己的天气,甚至我让它随身同行。

我怎样控制好情绪,让每一天都快乐而又有收获呢?我要学会这条千古秘诀:让思想

控制行为是弱者,迫使行为控制思想才是强者。每天我醒来,在我被哀伤、自怜和失败俘

获之前,我将按照这样的作战方案行事——

感到压抑就放声歌唱。

感到哀伤就畅怀大笑。

感到不适就加倍工作。

感到畏惧就勇往直前。

感到自惭形秽就穿上新衣服。

感到犹豫不决就提高嗓门。

感到贫困就想象财富将至。

感到力不从心就回忆往昔的成功。

感到无足轻重就铭记自己的目标。

从今以后,我将明白,只有能力低下的人才能够一直处于最佳状态,而我,不是能力

低下的人。会有那么些日子,我必须和把我折腾得狼狈不堪的势力不断地斗争。像绝望和

哀伤这些,简单而易识别。可是也有一些带着微笑、向我伸出友谊之手、却要置我于死地

的势力,同它们斗争,我决不能放弃控制情绪——

骄傲自负时就追寻失败的记忆。

沉湎享乐时就想到挨饿的从前。

沾沾自喜时就想到过去的竞争。

觉得自己了不得时就想到经受过的耻辱。

自以为是时看看能否让风儿止步。

腰缠万贯时想想饥寒之人。

骄傲自满时就想想自己曾经的软弱。

不可一世时抬起头仰望浩瀚的星空。

从今以后,我将认识到整个人类包括自己情绪的奥秘。从现在起,我做好了准备,每

天无论自己有什么个性的情感出现,都加以控制。我将用积极行动主宰情绪,当我控制了

自己的情绪,我就掌握了自己的命运。我会成为自己的主人,成就大事。

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