第140期:超级有效的谈话技巧,助你成为聊天达人呦

 　　今天分享的是超级有效的谈话技巧。

　　awkward¹ silence

　　尴尬的沉默

　　tongue-tied

　　开不了口

　　Trick #1:Give short and simple responses.

　　Trick #2:Listen to what the other says, and try to relate it to something else.

　　Trick #3:Ask questions and let the other person talk more.

　　Trick #4:Share your little stories with others.

　　技巧1：给简短的回答。

　　技巧2：听别人说，并试图关联到别的。

　　技巧3：提问，让对方多说话。

　　技巧4：与别人分享你的小故事。

　　We talk to people on a daily basis, whether with your friends, family or coworkers.

　　我们每天与人交谈，无论是与你的朋友、家人或同事。

　　Me too.

　　I think so.

　　You are right.

　　You are awesome².

　　我也是。

　　我也这么想的。

　　你说的对。

　　你好厉害。

　　Because this not only shows that you respect the other person, but also that you’re enjoying chatting with them. People will usually be happy that you’re interested in what they’re saying, and will want to share more with you.

　　因为这不仅表明你尊重对方，而且还表示你喜欢和他们聊天。人们通常会很高兴你对他们所说的话感兴趣，并且愿意和你分享更多。

　　Cause Sharing some detail about yourself makes the other person feel that you trust them, and will make the conversation more pleasant for the both of you.

　　分享一些关于你自己的细节会让对方感觉到你信任他们，并且会让你们两人的谈话更加愉快。

1 awkward   

adj.笨拙的，尴尬的，使用不便的，难处理的

参考例句：

• John is so shy and awkward that everyone notices him.约翰如此害羞狼狈，以至于大家都注意到了他。
• I was the only man among the guests and felt rather awkward.作为客人中的唯一男性，我有些窘迫。

2 awesome   

adj.令人惊叹的，难得吓人的，很好的

参考例句：

• The church in Ireland has always exercised an awesome power.爱尔兰的教堂一直掌握着令人敬畏的权力。
• That new white convertible is totally awesome.那辆新的白色折篷汽车简直棒极了.