豆知识 2011-09-11&09-17 远距离爱情维持招数

 Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and dating coach, the owner of NY Dating Coach here in New York City. 

 

In this clip¹, we'll talk about how to handle a long distance relationship. And it can really be fun if you’ll look at it that way. And yes, you miss each other all week long, but really a relationship is good anyway when it’s two people that can function independently on their own who choose to be together. And a long distance relationship makes that a lot easier. You can really take the time during the week when you're not together to do things you need to do for yourself which is really important. And then on the weekends, really go out of your way to make it something special. And talk every night. I really think that that's important to keep the conversation going. You know, even if it’s only for twenty or thirty minutes just to say hi, hon, how was your day, and really look forward to that phone call with each other so that it keeps that connection alive and keeps you part of their daily life, even though you didn't actually see each other. And love letters are a fun little thing too. Playfully send your thoughts, and back and forth², emails fine. 

1 clip   

n.夹子，别针，弹夹，片断；vt.夹住，修剪

参考例句：

• May I clip out the report on my performance?我能把报道我的文章剪下来吗？
• She fastened the papers together with a paper clip.她用曲别针把文件别在一起。

2 forth   

adv.向前；向外，往外

参考例句：

• The wind moved the trees gently back and forth.风吹得树轻轻地来回摇晃。
• He gave forth a series of works in rapid succession.他很快连续发表了一系列的作品。