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(单词翻译:双击或拖选)
Do you often get angry? If the answer is yes, you are not alone. Bad traffic, disagreements with people and other occurrences can potentially be a nuisance. But can you control your temper or do you bristle1 with rage every time someone crosses you?
One footballer known for his temper is Liverpool striker, Louis Suarez. After a confrontation2 in a match against Chelsea, he sank his teeth into his opponent Branislav Ivanovic's flesh. The bite caused outrage3 and he was ordered to go on an anger management course.
In 2007, supermodel Naomi Campbell was ordered to take the same type of classes by a New York court after pleading guilty to assaulting her housekeeper4.
If you are not famous, your anonymity5 might spare your blushes when it comes to meltdowns in public but it might not keep you out of court. Many ordinary people may be referred by the police or a doctor, or simply sign up themselves.
The theory of anger management was developed in the 1970s. The first reference to the term cited by the Oxford6 English Dictionary comes in 1975, in the work of US psychologist Raymond Novaco.
Today's courses are based on cognitive7 behaviour therapy, says Isabel Clarke, who has been running them for the UK's National Health Service in Southampton. She says: "What convinced me is seeing people change. For people who use anger and bullying8 to change that is a big ask."
It doesn't work for everyone. About 30% of people dropped out. But for those who persevered9, it led them to change their behaviour, says Clarke.
Among the recommendations for people with a short fuse are: accept that different opinions are acceptable, listen to the other person and don't take anything personally.
Control used to be seen as repression10. But these days letting it all out, ranting11 and raving12, is viewed as destructive behaviour, says Antonia Macaro, the Financial Times' agony aunt.
Maybe the best thing is just count to ten when you feel you are about to hit the roof. It might not give you time to calm down but will allow the other person to run away.
Quiz 测验
1. What did a Liverpool footballer do when he was angry?
Luis Suarez bit Chelsea's player Branislav Ivanovic.
2. What was Naomi Campbell ordered to do?
Go on an anger management course.
3. Is this statement true or false? People who don't take things personally are less likely to get angry.
True.
4. Which expression is a synonym13 of 'a tall order'?
A big ask.
5. Which expression means to make someone angry by not acting14 the way they want?
To cross someone.
Glossary 词汇表
a nuisance 令人讨厌的人或事
to control (your) temper 控制(你的)脾气
to bristle with rage 火冒三丈
to cross somebody 惹某人生气
to sink (his) teeth (动词)咬
outrage 公愤,愤慨
anger management 制怒(如何处理怒气)
to assault 打人,殴打
to spare (your) blushes 免于尴尬,不让(你)难为情
a meltdown 崩溃
cognitive behaviour therapy 认知行为治疗法
bullying 欺负,恐吓
a big ask 很难的事情
short fuse 急性子,火爆脾气
repression 压抑,控制
to let it all out全都发泄出来
to rant 大喊,大骂
to rave 愤怒大叫
an agony aunt (报刊上的)答读者问专栏作家
to hit the roof 大发雷霆
1 bristle | |
v.(毛发)直立,气势汹汹,发怒;n.硬毛发 | |
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2 confrontation | |
n.对抗,对峙,冲突 | |
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3 outrage | |
n.暴行,侮辱,愤怒;vt.凌辱,激怒 | |
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4 housekeeper | |
n.管理家务的主妇,女管家 | |
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5 anonymity | |
n.the condition of being anonymous | |
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6 Oxford | |
n.牛津(英国城市) | |
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adj.认知的,认识的,有感知的 | |
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8 bullying | |
v.恐吓,威逼( bully的现在分词 );豪;跋扈 | |
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9 persevered | |
v.坚忍,坚持( persevere的过去式和过去分词 ) | |
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10 repression | |
n.镇压,抑制,抑压 | |
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11 ranting | |
v.夸夸其谈( rant的现在分词 );大叫大嚷地以…说教;气愤地)大叫大嚷;不停地大声抱怨 | |
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12 raving | |
adj.说胡话的;疯狂的,怒吼的;非常漂亮的;令人醉心[痴心]的v.胡言乱语(rave的现在分词)n.胡话;疯话adv.胡言乱语地;疯狂地 | |
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n.演戏,行为,假装;adj.代理的,临时的,演出用的 | |
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