聪明女人都明白的9个处世之道

 　　1. The way to achieve your own success is to be willing to help somebody else get it first.

　　1. 获得个人成功的方法是愿意帮助他人先成功。

　　2. When you gossip, you hex yourself.Because I guarantee you if you do it,it’s coming back on you.

　　2. 当你八卦时，把自己也卷了进去。因为我保证如果你嚼别人舌根，谣言终会转到自己身上。

　　3. Comparison is an act of violence against the self.

　　3. 攀比是对自己的暴力。

　　4. The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.

　　4. 生命中最重要的事是活出自己。

　　5. People come into our life for a reason,a season or a lifetime.

　　5. 人们可能为了某个原因走进你生命，陪着你走过一季，或走完一生。

　　6. Trust yourself enough to know who you can trust.

　　6. 当判断谁可以信任时，相信自己的眼光。

　　7. Men think in headlines;women think in fine print.

　　7. 男人思考时注重整体，而女人注重细节。

　　8. If it’s not your story to tell,you don’t tell it.

　　8. 如果这不是你该讲的事，那就别说。

　　9. Gossip is when you have a malice¹ of intent or mindless,third-party conversation to someone about someone,something you haven’t said to that someone.

　　9. 流言蜚语是你恶意或无意地向第三方谈论某人、某事，却没对事件本人说。

1 malice   

n.恶意，怨恨，蓄意；[律]预谋

参考例句：

• I detected a suggestion of malice in his remarks.我觉察出他说的话略带恶意。
• There was a strong current of malice in many of his portraits.他的许多肖像画中都透着一股强烈的怨恨。