在美国，尤其在美国城市里，男女经常相约一起外出。他们一起滑雪，一起工作，一起去饭馆或在彼此的住处用餐。这并不意味着他们一定是对性感兴趣，尽管表面上看起来如此；当然，有一些男女是这样的。

 

 

 

Adult Dating in the US

 

Men and women go out together a great deal in America，especially in the cities．They ski1） together，work together，dine together，either at restaurants or in each other's apartments．This does not mean that they are necessarily interested in having sex together，though it may appear so and，of course，with some men and women it is so．

 

Most American women are not promiscuous2）．Single men dating American women should have more than one date with them before making any move to develop the situation into something more intimate．The man can ask the woman how she feels about “going further”．But his chances will be poor if he moves too fast and too soon，regardless of how informal things may look here．

 

An American woman will not feel that she owes3） a man sex because he has paid for her dinner．She will feel that her company and her acceptance of him have contributed toward a pleasant evening for both，but not that she owes him more．The man has to win anything beyond a casual friendship by being the kind of person she likes and wants．

 

American women are accustomed to easy companionability and equality．With the current emphasis on Women's Lib，many are especially touchy4） about their independence．Any man who expects to find American women obedient，is likely to have a hard time．