双语有声阅读:弱点还是强项(在线收听) |
每个人都会有自己的弱点或缺陷,不同的是看待这些弱点的方法。面对自己的弱点,人们往往变得谦卑或者沮丧,却不知道强和弱本是相对的概念,可以辩证地转化。世界上没有十全十美的人,除了不懈的努力,最重要的是明白自己的弱点,并去克服它,化弱点为强项。 Sometimes your biggest weakness can become your biggest strength. Take, for example, the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.
The boy began lessons with an old Japanese judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn't understand why, after three months of training, the master had taught him only one move.
"Sensei," the boy finally said, "shouldn't I be learning more moves?"
"This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you'll ever need to know," the sensei replied.
Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training.
Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first tournament.
Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.
This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a timeout. He was about to stop the match when the sensei intervened.
"No," the sensei insisted, "let him continue."
Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a big mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion.
On the way home, the boy and sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy gathered the courage to ask what was really on his mind.
"Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?"
"You won for two reasons," the sensei answered. "First, you've almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. Second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm."
The boy's biggest weakness had become his biggest strength.
弱点还是强项
你最大的弱点有时可以变成最大的优势。我们就拿一个10岁男孩的故事来举个例子吧。尽管在一次严重车祸中失去了左臂,他还是决定去学习柔道。
他师从一位德高望重的日本柔道大师。男孩学得不错,但他弄不明白在三个月的训练中,大师为什么只传授他一招。
“师傅,”男孩终于问道,“我可以学些别的招数吗?”
“这是你知道的惟一的一招,但有这一招就够了。”师傅回答道。
虽然懵懵懂懂,但男孩信任他的师傅,便继续练了下去。
几个月后,男孩被师傅领着首次参加锦标赛。
让男孩自己都感惊讶的是,他轻而易举地赢了头两场比赛。第三场比赛就没那么轻松了,可是一段时间后,他的对手沉不住气了,发起进攻,男孩巧妙接招,一招制敌。尽管对自己的成功仍百思不得其解,男孩已经杀入决赛了。
这次他的对手高大强壮,经验老到。一时间,男孩看上去要被打败。担心男孩可能会受伤,裁判赶紧喊“暂停”。裁判正打算宣布终止比赛,男孩的师傅出面了。
“不,”师傅坚持道,“让他继续。”
比赛重新开始不久,他的对手犯了一个致命错误:他疏于防守,门户大开。男孩以迅雷不及掩耳之势,用他那一招将对方摔倒在地。男孩赢得了比赛,夺得了锦标赛的冠军。
回家的路上,男孩和师傅回顾起每场比赛的每一个动作。然后,男孩鼓起勇气,向师傅提出了他苦思不解的问题。
“师傅,我怎么会只用一招就赢得了锦标赛的胜利呢?”
“你赢有两个原因,”师傅回答说。“首先,你已经基本掌握了整个柔道中难度最高的一种摔跤动作。第二,目前已知破解此招惟一的方法就是对手去抓你的左臂。”
男孩最大的弱点变成了他最大的优势。
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