We've bought into the idea that all the problems people might have from their childhoods come down to the fact that their parents were mean or neglectful. Be nice to your kids - psychologists tell us - and all will be well. But that's turned out to be pretty misleading.

　　我们深信：人们自身所有可能源自于童年时期的问题，都要归结于当时遭受到父母恶劣的对待或是忽视。心理学家告诉我们：请善待你们的孩子，这样就会一切都很美好。但这个观念其实很误导人。

　　童年时期的问题

　　学习重点：

　　1.fact 事实

　　fact (n.) 事实

　　2.mean 坏的

　　mean (adj.) 坏的

　　3.neglectful 疏忽的

　　neglectful (adj.) 疏忽的

　　neglect (n.) 忽视、忽略

　　ignore (v.) 不予理会

　　ignorance (n.) 无知

　　4.misleading 使人误解的

　　misleading (adj.) 使人误解的

　　misunderstanding (n.) 误解