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You're in the job you always wanted and you're doing well, even making more money than your husband.
But beware(当心). Women who become the chief breadwinners(养家糊口的人) in their domestic partnerships2 are more likely to pay the price with divorce.
Researchers admit that the reason is unclear, but it may be that male pride is wounded by not being the biggest earner in the household.
Successful women, for their part, may grow to resent a husband who doesn't appear to be pulling his weight.
The finding is the result of a 25-year study of more than 2,500 marriages, comes hot on the heels of other research showing that house-husbands are prone3 to affairs.
With nearly a third of British women earning more than their men, the results could sow doubt in millions of minds.
The American researchers studied the marriages and income of more than 2,500 women who married for the first time between 1979 and 2002.
They found that those women who consistently made more money than their husbands were up to 38 per cent more likely to divorce than others.
Jay Teachman, of Western Washington University, said there could be several reasons behind the statistic4.
For instance, financial independence makes it easier for women to find a way out of an unhappy marriage.
Dented5 egos6 - of both sexes - may also play a role.
Professor Teachman said: 'There may be "wounded pride" on the part of the male that may lead to tension in the relationship. It may also be the case that some women react negatively(消极的) to a mate that does not earn as much as themselves.'
A sudden increase in hours worked was also linked to marriage break downs, the Journal Of Family Issues reports.
Examples of the phenomenon include the collapse7 of Kate Winslet's marriage to Jim Threapleton, an assistant film director, in 2001, which was blamed on the actress's burgeoning8 movie career.
And this year when singer Charlotte Church separated from her rugby player fiance Gavin Henson friends pointed9 out that he earned much less than her.
For a happy marriage, Professor Teachman recommends a 60:40 split in income, with the husband being the highest earner.
His findingschime with a recent American study which reported that men who are financially dependent on their other halves are more likely to be unfaithful - and the greater the earning gap the more likely the man is to cheat.
For instance, house husbands whose wives worked all day were five times more likely to have an affair than those who contributed an equal amount of money to the partnership1.
The Cornell University researchers said that low-earning men may use an affair as a way of reasserting their masculinity.(本文由在线英语听力室整理编辑)
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n.合作关系,伙伴关系 | |
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2 partnerships | |
n.伙伴关系( partnership的名词复数 );合伙人身份;合作关系 | |
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3 prone | |
adj.(to)易于…的,很可能…的;俯卧的 | |
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4 statistic | |
n.统计量;adj.统计的,统计学的 | |
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5 dented | |
v.使产生凹痕( dent的过去式和过去分词 );损害;伤害;挫伤(信心、名誉等) | |
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6 egos | |
自我,自尊,自负( ego的名词复数 ) | |
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7 collapse | |
vi.累倒;昏倒;倒塌;塌陷 | |
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8 burgeoning | |
adj.迅速成长的,迅速发展的v.发芽,抽枝( burgeon的现在分词 );迅速发展;发(芽),抽(枝) | |
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