你不能结交的朋友-控制狂(2)

You Can't Make Friends with this man

 

你不能结交的朋友

 

The Controller

 

控制狂

 

Being a Controller is part of this person's personality, which means it's a harder trait to break.

 

But it can be frustrating¹ for you to be dominated so much.Maybe the Controller has to pick out everything you do as friends andgives an opinion on everything you do or want to do without being asked. There is no give and take, as the Controller is uncomfortable and bossy² if you want to make a choice about something.

 

If you want to keep the friendship alive, let the person know how much you dislike being controlled. This trait, though, may become so negative that you may need to break ties.

 

1 frustrating   

adj.产生挫折的，使人沮丧的，令人泄气的v.使不成功( frustrate的现在分词 )；挫败；使受挫折；令人沮丧

参考例句：

• It's frustrating to have to wait so long. 要等这么长时间，真令人懊恼。
• It was a demeaning and ultimately frustrating experience. 那是一次有失颜面并且令人沮丧至极的经历。 来自《简明英汉词典》

2 bossy   

adj.爱发号施令的，作威作福的

参考例句：

• She turned me off with her bossy manner.她态度专橫很讨我嫌。
• She moved out because her mother-in-law is too bossy.她的婆婆爱指使人,所以她搬出去住了。