为什么你朋友很少-你抱怨，重色轻友，很自私(6)

 

 

You Complain A Lot

 

你总是抱怨

 

If you're constantly complaining about your job,lack of money, or unfair life, people won't care to spend a lot of time with you. Complaining gets old fast. Try to develop a more positive attitude and look for more interesting topics to discuss rather than what's going wrong in your life.

 

 

You Ditch Your Friends When You're in a Relationship

 

If you're guilty of ditching your friends every time you begin dating someone new, it's likely your friends won't sit around and wait to hear your breakup story. Instead, they'll move on without you. It's important to find a balance between spending time with your pals¹ and your latest romantic interest.

 

You're Selfish

 

Consider whether or not being selfish contributes to the fact that you don't have friends. Friendship requires you to give, evenwhen you don't feel like it. If you're only willing to do what you want, when you want it, it's unlikely that your friends will tolerate it for very long.

 

1 pals   

n.朋友( pal的名词复数 )；老兄；小子；（对男子的不友好的称呼）家伙

参考例句：

• We've been pals for years. 我们是多年的哥们儿了。
• CD 8 positive cells remarkably increased in PALS and RP(P CD8+细胞在再生脾PALS和RP内均明显增加(P 来自互联网