讨喜法-倾听，不只是用耳朵(2)

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Listen (Not Just With Your Ears).

 

倾听（不只是用耳朵）。

 

It's probably a no-brainer that people will like you more if you listen to them.

 

如果你聆听别人的倾诉，他们就会更喜欢你，这件事可能很好理解。

 

This starts with ignoring your Twitter feed while out to dinner with friends, but goes a lot further than that.

 

你可以从跟朋友出去吃饭时不看推特做起，但你需要做的还有很多。

 

You can show you're listening to someone through body language (positioning your body to face someone and mirroring his or her stance), eye contact (giving plenty of it), and verbal¹ confirmation² (we'll talk more about this next).

 

你可以用肢体语言（身体要面向对方模仿对方的姿势）、眼神交流（这个要有很多）和言语上的确认（我们接下来要多聊聊这件事）来表明你在听对方说话。

1 verbal   

adj.口头的，用言辞的，用文字的，动词的

参考例句：

• Verbal statements are no guarantee.口说无凭。
• I delivered a verbal protest against their brutal acts.我对他们的暴行提出口头抗议。

2 confirmation   

n.证实，确认，批准

参考例句：

• We are waiting for confirmation of the news.我们正在等待证实那个消息。
• We need confirmation in writing before we can send your order out.给你们发送订购的货物之前，我们需要书面确认。