讨喜法-真诚的赞美和各种称赞(5)

讨喜法

 

Sincere Compliments and Plentiful¹ Praise.

 

真诚的赞美和各种称赞。

 

As noted² again by the famous self-improvement expert Dale Carnegie, individuals crave³ authentic⁴ appreciation⁵.

 

著名的自我提高方面的专家戴尔·卡内基再次表明每个人都渴望真诚的欣赏。

 

This is very different from empty flattery, which most people are adept⁶ at detecting.

 

这和空洞的奉承有很大区别，大部分人都容易发觉。

 

No one likes a brown-nose, and most people don't particularly love being pandered⁷ to.

 

谁都不喜欢拍马屁，大部分人尤其不喜欢被人迎合。

 

What people really want is sincere appreciation — to be recognized and appreciated for their efforts.

 

人们真正想要的是真诚的欣赏——他们的努力被认可被赞赏。

 

1 plentiful   

adj.富裕的，丰富的

参考例句：

• Their family has a plentiful harvest this year.他们家今年又丰收了。
• Rainfall is plentiful in the area.这个地区雨量充足。

2 noted   

adj.著名的，知名的

参考例句：

• The local hotel is noted for its good table.当地的那家酒店以餐食精美而著称。
• Jim is noted for arriving late for work.吉姆上班迟到出了名。

3 crave   

vt.渴望得到，迫切需要，恳求，请求

参考例句：

• Many young children crave attention.许多小孩子渴望得到关心。
• You may be craving for some fresh air.你可能很想呼吸呼吸新鲜空气。

4 authentic   

a.真的，真正的；可靠的，可信的，有根据的

参考例句：

• This is an authentic news report. We can depend on it. 这是篇可靠的新闻报道, 我们相信它。
• Autumn is also the authentic season of renewal. 秋天才是真正的除旧布新的季节。

5 appreciation   

n.评价；欣赏；感谢；领会，理解；价格上涨

参考例句：

• I would like to express my appreciation and thanks to you all.我想对你们所有人表达我的感激和谢意。
• I'll be sending them a donation in appreciation of their help.我将送给他们一笔捐款以感谢他们的帮助。

6 adept   

adj.老练的，精通的

参考例句：

• When it comes to photography,I'm not an adept.要说照相，我不是内行。
• He was highly adept at avoiding trouble.他十分善于避开麻烦。

7 pandered   

v.迎合（他人的低级趣味或淫欲）( pander的过去式和过去分词 )；纵容某人；迁就某事物

参考例句：

• The newspaper here pandered to people's interest in sex scandals. 这里的报纸迎合了人们对桃色新闻的兴趣。 来自《简明英汉词典》
• His films never pandered to public taste. 他的电影从不迎合公众的口味。 来自《简明英汉词典》