战胜恐惧-面对一切(1)

Fight Fear

 

战胜恐惧

 

Let it in

 

面对一切

 

First, you have to be willing to let others get to you. Let them know that you are a safe person to come to and that they will always be welcomed without fear of judgment¹. By giving them this safety, you will get so much more in return.

 

首先你需要愿意让其他人接近你。让他们知道你是一个可以安全交往的人，而且他们一直不害怕评判地受欢迎。通过给予他们这种安全感，你也会得到更多安全感的回报。

 

Do not deny it

 

不要否认恐惧

 

One of the biggest mistakes you can make with love is denying that you feel it. Embrace the warm and fuzzy feelings that you feel and acknowledge them instead of pushing them away. When you are in denial, your fear keeps growing, lowering your chance of finding your soulmate.

 

你在处理爱的时候，犯的最大的错误纸质就是否认你对爱的感觉。拥抱这种你感受到的温暖舒适的感觉，承认这种爱，而不是推开爱。当你否定爱的时候，你的恐惧就会持续上升，降低你找到心灵伴侣的机会。

1 judgment   

n.审判；判断力，识别力，看法，意见

参考例句：

• The chairman flatters himself on his judgment of people.主席自认为他审视人比别人高明。
• He's a man of excellent judgment.他眼力过人。