婚前想想-我们的目标和方向一致吗(7)

 婚前想想

 

Are we looking in the same direction?

 

我们的目标和方向一致吗？

 

Some couples avoid having the big talks(religion, marriage, babies) because they think that, somehow, these thingswill just "work themselves out." By the time they realize they won't,they're in a complicated¹, painful situation that leaves one (or both) feeling alittle bit duped.

 

有些夫妇拒绝讨论一些重要的问题（宗教、婚姻、孩子）因为他们认为这些事情总会自己得到解决。等他们认识到这些事情并不能自己解决的时候，他们会陷入一种矛盾、痛苦的局面，让自己（或者双方）都感觉受到了欺骗。

 

Are we growing together?

 

我们是否在一起进步？

 

Being a human being living on thisearth, we all have a right to grow and develop, and create a full life forourselves. Are you and your partner still indulging² in your passions(individual and shared) and growing as individuals?

 

人生在世，我们有权利去成长和发展，为我们自己创造完美的人生。你和你的伴侣仍然保持满满的激情（各自或者共同）在进步吗？

1 complicated   

adj.错综复杂的，麻烦的，结构复杂的

参考例句：

• The poem is so complicated that I cannot make out its meaning.这首诗太复杂，我理解不了它的意思。
• This is the most complicated case I have ever handled.这是我所处理过的最为复杂的案子。

2 indulging   

放纵( indulge的现在分词 )； 容许； 使（自己）沉溺于； 参加

参考例句：

• The speaker played to the gallery by indulging in vulgar jokes. 为了哗众取宠，那位演讲者大讲特讲粗俗的笑话。
• He did not agree with indulging children. 他反对纵容娇惯孩子。