婚前想想-我还是我吗(8)

 婚前想想

 

Am I with a good person?

 

我的伴侣是个好人吗？

 

Knowing what you know about your partner today, would you vouch¹ for them if they were a friend?

 

现在要尽可能多的去了解你的伴侣，如果仅仅是朋友你敢对他/她的人品打包票吗？

 

Am I still me?

 

我还是我吗？

 

Being in love with someone should notrequire changing our identity to fit someone else's idea of who we should be,on any level.

 

和某个人相爱不应该要求自己改变或者去成为别人希望自己成为的人或者去达到别人要求的水准。

 

What is my gut² telling me?

 

直觉告诉我什么？

 

You have intuition for a reason. Listento yourself.

 

对于一些缘由你一定有所直觉。听从自己的直觉。

1 vouch   

v.担保；断定；n.被担保者

参考例句：

• They asked whether I was prepared to vouch for him.他们问我是否愿意为他作担保。
• I can vouch for the fact that he is a good worker.我保证他是好员工。

2 gut   

n.[pl.]胆量；内脏；adj.本能的；vt.取出内脏

参考例句：

• It is not always necessary to gut the fish prior to freezing.冷冻鱼之前并不总是需要先把内脏掏空。
• My immediate gut feeling was to refuse.我本能的直接反应是拒绝。