西部落：嫁人非得嫁完美男人吗?

Are you turning men off? It may not be how you look, but it may be something that you are totally unaware¹ of. Hi, I'm Marie Forleo, life coach and author. And today I wanna talk to you about the perfect man checklist and why you need to burn that, girl.

Most women have something called the perfect man checklist. It's an idea in their head about what the perfect man looks like and unknowingly, every time they meet a new guy, you're kind of scanning around, trying to see whether or not he fits that perfect man checklist. Well, here's what I recommend - burn the perfect man checklist. That's right, lady, set it to fire. Here's why. That perfect man checklist was put together when you were a much younger version of yourself. It's probably put together from people in your family, things that you learned in school, and it may not be appropriate to the beautiful and irresistible² woman you are today.

When you have a perfect man checklist, it's cutting you off from boatloads of men that are out there that can be single, available, but they may not fit your pictures. I know for me, I used to think that I used to have to be married to some Italian, very strong, masculine-looking guy, and I happened to be from Jersey³, so we had that look. You know what happened when I burned my perfect man checklist? I absolutely met the man in my dreams. So ladies, go ahead and burn that perfect man checklist. You're gonna be so surprised at who you meet. You never know, it could be your Mr. Right. For more advice on dating and relationships, check out my new book. Make every man want you, or make yours want you more. How to be so damn irresistible you will barely keep from dating yourself. You can learn more at makeeverymanwantyou.com. Thanks for clicking on imag.

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1 unaware   

a.不知道的，未意识到的

参考例句：

• They were unaware that war was near. 他们不知道战争即将爆发。
• I was unaware of the man's presence. 我没有察觉到那人在场。

2 irresistible   

adj.非常诱人的，无法拒绝的，无法抗拒的

参考例句：

• The wheel of history rolls forward with an irresistible force.历史车轮滚滚向前，势不可挡。
• She saw an irresistible skirt in the store window.她看见商店的橱窗里有一条叫人着迷的裙子。

3 jersey   

n.运动衫

参考例句：

• He wears a cotton jersey when he plays football.他穿运动衫踢足球。
• They were dressed alike in blue jersey and knickers.他们穿着一致，都是蓝色的运动衫和灯笼短裤。