西部落：“忙”得忘记了爱

Taking Love For Granted

Robi Ludwig from Cookie magazine and Finesse¹ Mitchell from Essence² magazine talk to Harry³ Smith about how to make time for love in the busy lives men and women lead today.

It's the job, friends, the internet, do you have time for everyone and everything except your expects, are you tooo busy for your relationships? joining us ... from cookie magazineand essence magazine comlumnist.

.... we are very familiary with you all my life. How are you? Good to see you. Your guys are doing right?

Yes, great.

so would you busy? We are walking around the town, everybody down there, you know, cellphone, and they are on their things, and their...you know,trying to save their jobs. Because the Wall Street goes down to ... we are too busy for love, is it possible that we are too busy for love?

Well, i think we are taking our relationships for granted.

Yep.

And once we work together, we say you know i love you, even though i don't talk to you... all the time. i think we have to acknowdlege too. You work like .. into your whole life, so we need to be really more delibetelly about our relationship than we sometimes that could be really relationships suicide⁴.

See, i think men attempt to be pretty selfish though. Right? Because they have their jobs, they have their dreams, they have their friends, they have their golf, they have ...right? All that ...You know they have got to the sports center, whose get time to rub your girlfriends feet? ...

Would you do up to the show?

You can rub your feet,why do you love sports? Rihgt/ That's she wants to be in the room, why you ...?

Probably not.

Probably not, so a lot of women sometimes feel, you know, why am i competing tv, why i compete this or that? So i think it would not be necessary to talk about everything. You know, You have to compromise, because when a woman is just as busy.. she sometimes is hash with man, you know, the man is ... and the man is, you know.,sometimes ...

What about me?

Right? Don't ...complain like ...

Sure.

Really, what you need to know, you want to know when you pay attention to somebody, it's love as equal as love it, you give your attention to them on the way they want you to give attention.

We bring this subjects, because all these high profile man ...last couple of weeks, last couple of months, your guys ...Richie and McDonald. you could...

1 finesse   

n.精密技巧，灵巧，手腕

参考例句：

• It was a disappointing performance which lacked finesse.那场演出缺乏技巧，令人失望。
• Lillian Hellman's plays are marked by insight and finesse.莉莲.赫尔曼的巨作以富有洞察力和写作技巧著称。

2 essence   

n.本质，实质，精华，精粹

参考例句：

• We must try to get to the essence of things.我们必须想法抓住事物的本质。
• The two things are the same in outward form but different in essence.这两件东西外表形式一样，但实质不同。

3 harry   

vt.掠夺，蹂躏，使苦恼

参考例句：

• Today,people feel more hurried and harried.今天，人们感到更加忙碌和苦恼。
• Obama harried business by Healthcare Reform plan.奥巴马用医改掠夺了商界。

4 suicide   

n.自杀，自毁，自杀性行为

参考例句：

• The number of suicide has increased.自杀案件的数量增加了。
• The death was adjudged a suicide by sleeping pills.该死亡事件被判定为服用安眠药自杀。