与中国女孩约会的9个原因

 　　I have met a lot of friends who have said really nice things about being with a Chinese girl. And truthfully, it is a subject worth considering. Dating a Chinese woman poses a different experience from dating Western women or perhaps women from any other culture. They come with the whole package, they are hard workers, like to treat their men well, and are not obnoxious¹ or entitled. Chinese women really charm you from the first date. I do not see why you should not consider these reasons why you should date a Chinese girl.

　　我遇到了很多朋友，他们说我和一个中国女孩在一起真的很好。事实上，这是一个值得思考的问题。和一个中国女人约会与和西方女人或者其他任何文化的女人约会相比都是不同的经历。她们完美无缺，她们努力工作，她们对待自己的男人很好，而不会让人讨厌和独断专行。中国女人真的会在第一次约会中就迷倒你。我不明白为什么你不考虑这些你应该与中国女孩约会的原因。

　　1.They understand the true meaning of gender² roles她们明白性别角色的真正含义

　　A woman should be a woman. There is no point having a woman who is the man in the relationship. Many men do not like competitors. When you are dating a Chinese girl you should know that you are dating a girl that tends to follow the traditional standards of what a woman’s role is. For some men, this is an ideal situation that allows them to feel secure in their relationship.

　　女人就应该做女人。有一个在恋爱中像男人行事的女人毫无意义。许多人不喜欢竞争者。当你和一个中国女孩约会时，你应该知道你正在约会一个倾向于遵循女人角色传统标准的女孩。对于一些男人来说，这是一个理想的情况，能让他们在约会中感到安心。

　　2.They appreciate learning about other cultures她们喜欢学习其它文化

　　They are not stiff or rigid³. Chinese women take the time to understand the traditions in other cultures and be respectful of others. They want to have a feel for other cultures. It is actually easier for many guys to find it easier to socialize with Chinese girls.

　　她们不拘谨也不呆板。中国女人会花时间去了解其他文化中的传统，尊重他人。她们想要感受其它文化。事实上，许多人会发现与中国女孩交往更容易。

　　3.They also have a lot of things to teach you她们还能教给你许多东西

　　They offer you new and exciting experiences about life and an insight to an amazing culture that spans over 5,000 years.

　　她们会给你关于生活的新奇体验，让你了解跨越5000多年的文化。

　　4.They are devoted⁴ partners

　　她们是忠实的恋人

　　They are supportive and would love you extensively. It is something that is ingrained in their culture and Chinese girls take great pride in being loving and loyal to a man.

　　她们会鼓励你，永远的爱你。这是一种根植于文化中的东西，中国女孩以爱和忠诚而自豪。

　　5.They are eager to please men

　　她们渴望愉悦男人。

　　They are considerate and honest and are keen to treat their boyfriends very well. Chinese girls are kind and caring regardless of where you are from.

　　她们体贴诚实，渴望很好地对待她们的男朋友。中国女孩很善良，而不会关心你来自哪里。

　　6.They are super feminine and sweet

　　她们很有女人味、很甜美

　　Chinese girls value looking beautiful and feminine as they know these are important traits in keeping a man. In their culture, being feminine gives them power and value which they leverage⁵ this as much as possible to make the guy what they want. It positions them strongly in a relationship with a man though. If you are a man you would only be willing to do the bidding of someone who shows you respect, acts in a loving way, and treats you special.

　　中国女孩喜欢打扮得漂亮有女人味，因为她们知道这些是留住一个男人的重要特点。在她们的文化中，有女人味给她们力量和价值，她们会尽可能的用这种力量找到她们想要的男人。这决定着她们在一段关系中的位置。如果你是一个男人，你只会愿意听从于向你展示尊重、以有爱的方式行动、特别对待你的女人。

　　7.They are open-minded

　　她们思想开放

　　They may not have a lot of sexual experience because of their culture or upbringing but many Chinese girls are adapting to the reality of the world around them. They do want to explore and can be adventurous⁶ when it comes to the subject of sex or its practices. They may not be so informed about sex but they would be glad to be taught and really do have an open mind about it.

　　她们可能由于她们的文化或教养而没有太多的性经验，但许多中国女孩正在适应她们身边的真实世界。她们想要探索或是冒险有关性或性练习的主题。她们可能不太了解性，但她们会很高兴被教给这个，而且真的对此很开放。

　　8.They will show you how to eat a Chinese diet她们会向你展示如何吃中餐

　　Chinese food is very rich, tasty and spicy⁷. And who can show you how to appreciate a Chinese delicacy⁸ than a Chinese girl. Well you will have to learn how to use chopsticks to east dishes like Flaming Hot Cheetos. Although not all Chinese girls can cook, if you can find one who can the more interesting the reasons for you to date her.

　　中餐很丰富、美味、辛辣。谁能比一个中国女孩更能告诉你如何欣赏中国美食呢？你必须要学会如何使用筷子吃像是辣热小吃这样的食物。尽管不是所有中国女孩都会做饭，但如果你能找到一个可以做饭的女孩会成为你约会她更加有趣的原因。

　　9.They will teach you how to speak Chinese她们会叫你如何说汉语

　　Chinese girls love their language. And Chinese is becoming popular globally now. So when you are dating one she definitely would expect you to know how to speak her language and she is willing to teach you if you don’t know it already.

　　中国女孩喜欢她们的语言。如今汉语在全球越来越流行。所以当你约会一个中国女孩时，她肯定会期待你知道如何讲她的语言，如果你不会的话，她也愿意教你。

 

1 obnoxious   

adj.极恼人的，讨人厌的，可憎的

参考例句：

• These fires produce really obnoxious fumes and smoke.这些火炉冒出来的烟气确实很难闻。
• He is the most obnoxious man I know.他是我认识的最可憎的人。

2 gender   

n.（生理上的）性，（名词、代词等的）性

参考例句：

• French differs from English in having gender for all nouns.法语不同于英语，所有的名词都有性。
• Women are sometimes denied opportunities solely because of their gender.妇女有时仅仅因为性别而无法获得种种机会。

3 rigid   

adj.严格的，死板的；刚硬的，僵硬的

参考例句：

• She became as rigid as adamant.她变得如顽石般的固执。
• The examination was so rigid that nearly all aspirants were ruled out.考试很严，几乎所有的考生都被淘汰了。

4 devoted   

adj.忠诚的，忠实的，热心的，献身于...的

参考例句：

• He devoted his life to the educational cause of the motherland.他为祖国的教育事业贡献了一生。
• We devoted a lengthy and full discussion to this topic.我们对这个题目进行了长时间的充分讨论。

5 leverage   

n.力量，影响；杠杆作用，杠杆的力量

参考例句：

• We'll have to use leverage to move this huge rock.我们不得不借助杠杆之力来移动这块巨石。
• He failed in the project because he could gain no leverage. 因为他没有影响力，他的计划失败了。

6 adventurous   

adj.爱冒险的；惊心动魄的，惊险的，刺激的　

参考例句：

• I was filled with envy at their adventurous lifestyle.我很羨慕他们敢于冒险的生活方式。
• He was predestined to lead an adventurous life.他注定要过冒险的生活。

7 spicy   

adj.加香料的；辛辣的，有风味的

参考例句：

• The soup tasted mildly spicy.汤尝起来略有点辣。
• Very spicy food doesn't suit her stomach.太辣的东西她吃了胃不舒服。

8 delicacy   

n.精致，细微，微妙，精良；美味，佳肴

参考例句：

• We admired the delicacy of the craftsmanship.我们佩服工艺师精巧的手艺。
• He sensed the delicacy of the situation.他感觉到了形势的微妙。