公众人物毕业演讲第185期:桑德伯格2012哈佛商学院(10)

 　　So I speak about it openly and that gives people permission

　　后来我就主动地谈论这个缺点

　　to tell me when it's happening

　　让大家来认同我 因而可以在我焦躁时告诫我

　　But if I never said anything

　　但是如果我对此一句不提

　　would anyone who works at Facebook walk up to me and say

　　会有Facebook的员工 走上来对我说

　　Hey Sheryl, calm down

　　嘿 谢丽尔 冷静点

　　You're driving us all nuts! I don't think so

　　你快把我们搞疯了 我可不这样认为

　　As you graduate today

　　在你们毕业的今天

　　ask yourself, how will you lead?

　　问自己你将如何去领导？

　　Will you use simple and clear language?

　　你会用简单明了的语言吗？

　　Will you seek out honest feedback?

　　你会追寻真实的反馈吗？

　　When you get honesty feedback

　　当你得到真实的反馈

　　will you react with anger or with gratitude¹?

　　你会愤怒还是感激？

　　As we strive to be more authentic in our communication

　　当我们努力更真诚地沟通时

　　we should also strive to be more authentic in a broader sense

　　我们也应该在更多的意义上做到真实

　　I talk a lot about bringing your whole self to work

　　我经常会说带着完整的自己去上班

　　something I believe in very deeply

　　这是我深深相信的一点

　　Motivation comes from working on things we care about

　　工作的动力来自于做我们在乎的事情

　　But it also comes from working with people we care about

　　但也来自于和我们在乎的人一起工作

　　And in order to care about someone

　　要做到在乎某人

　　you have to know them

　　你必须了解他们

　　You have to know what they love and hate

　　你必须知道他们喜欢什么讨厌什么

　　what they feel

　　他们会有什么样的感受

　　not just what they think

　　而不只是他们会想什么

　　If you want to win hearts and minds

　　如果你想得到人心

　　you have to lead with your heart as well as your mind

　　你必须用心去领导

　　I don't believe we have a professional self

　　我不相信周一到周五

　　from Mondays through Fridays

　　我们是职业的自己

　　and a real self for the rest of the time

　　其它时间才是真正的自己

　　That kind of division probably never worked

　　类似这样的分离从来就不太可行

　　but in today's world, a real voice and authentic voice

　　在越来越提倡真实的当今世界里

　　it makes even less sense

　　这就更没有意义了

　　I've cried at work

　　我在工作时流过泪

　　I've told people I've cried at work

　　我告诉过别人我在工作时流过泪

　　And it's been reported in the press that

　　后来这被媒体报道成

　　Sheryl Sandberg cried

　　谢丽尔·桑德伯格

　　on Mark Zuckerberg's shoulder

　　在马克·扎克伯格的肩膀上哭泣

　　which is not exactly what happened

　　事实当然不是如此

　　I talk about my hopes and fears

　　我会谈论我的希望和恐惧

　　and ask people about theirs

　　也会询问别人的希望和恐惧

1 gratitude   

adj.感激，感谢

参考例句：

• I have expressed the depth of my gratitude to him.我向他表示了深切的谢意。
• She could not help her tears of gratitude rolling down her face.她感激的泪珠禁不住沿着面颊流了下来。