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...Or What You Don't Want

或者不想要的

It's hard to say what you want when you're not sure of it. She points out, "The reason certain people can't answer that question is that it's too overwhelming. But most folks can say what they DON'T want. They can say, "' don't want to work for a large company,' or 'I don't want a lengthy¹ commute².' The flip³ side of what you don't want is what you do want".

当人们不确定的时候去说想要什么就会很难。她指出，“某些人回答不出这个问题的原因是它太‘（远）大’。但是多数人都能说出自己不想要什么。他们会说：‘我不想为大企业工作’或‘我不想上班路途长’，那么不想要的反面就是你想要的了”。

Fight the Fear...

克服恐惧心

If creating a vision is so simple, why don't more people do it? Brown-Volkman reveals, "People are lost and afraid now, and they're scared to say what they want because they're afraid of not getting it. When it comes to vision, sometimes people won't even say what they want unless they know they will get there or how to get there. But you have to create what you want first and then live into it. It's like a declaration. It takes courage-and a bit of faith."

如果说设定一个远景是一件容易的事情，那为什么没有更多人去做呢？博朗·沃克曼说，“人们现在迷茫了、害怕了，他们害怕说自己想要什么，因为担心自己得不到。说到远景，有时候，甚至人们除非一定能实现，否则都不愿意说出想要什么。但是你首先要创建一个你想要的，然后融于其中。这就像一次宣言。这需要勇气一一外加一点点信念。”

1 lengthy   

adj.漫长的，冗长的

参考例句：

• We devoted a lengthy and full discussion to this topic.我们对这个题目进行了长时间的充分讨论。
• The professor wrote a lengthy book on Napoleon.教授写了一部有关拿破仑的巨著。

2 commute   

vi.乘车上下班；vt.减(刑)；折合；n.上下班交通

参考例句：

• I spend much less time on my commute to work now.我现在工作的往返时间要节省好多。
• Most office workers commute from the suburbs.很多公司的职员都是从郊外来上班的。

3 flip   

vt.快速翻动；轻抛；轻拍；n.轻抛；adj.轻浮的

参考例句：

• I had a quick flip through the book and it looked very interesting.我很快翻阅了一下那本书，看来似乎很有趣。
• Let's flip a coin to see who pays the bill.咱们来抛硬币决定谁付钱。