美国国家公共电台 NPR Military Widows Find Hope And Understanding Together

 

SCOTT SIMON, HOST:

During the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, the women seeking help from the American Widow Project were young, and their husbands had been killed in combat. Today, the widows who contact the organization are older and, as Gloria Hillard reports, their husbands die on American soil.

GLORIA HILLARD, BYLINE¹: In the kitchen of this vacation rental² in Southern California, there are family pictures on the refrigerator.

UNIDENTIFIED WOMAN: You have to make an incision³ somewhere.

(LAUGHTER)

HILLARD: On closer inspection⁴, they are of the women around the kitchen table - wedding photos and pictures of children. A typical makeshift family scrapbook at an American Widow Project retreat.

ERIN MURZYN: I have to say I haven't genuinely laughed as much as I've laughed with these ladies and shared things that I know that they understand.

HILLARD: Erin Murzyn says on the first day of the retreat she was nervous. At the age of 43, she wondered if she would be the oldest widow.

MURZYN: A lot of widows - military widows - are young. Am I going to be the suicide widow? Like, is everybody else going to be KIA?

HILLARD: Killed in action - and she wasn't the oldest or the only suicide widow. Group facilitator Erin Dructor says she started noticing the trend a couple of years ago when the majority of women contacting the nonprofit reported that they had lost their husbands to suicide or terminal illness.

ERIC DRUCTOR: Each event, it's about 70 percent are non-combat.

HILLARD: Dructor got involved with the American Widow Project a decade ago after her husband, Army Sergeant⁵ Blake Stephens, was killed in Iraq. Back then, she says, the women's stories often began the same way. There were two uniformed men in the driveway, on the porch.

DRUCTOR: Now it's almost like the widows are finding their husbands or family members are finding their husbands.

MURZYN: So it was my brother who told me.

HILLARD: Erin Murzyn's husband, retired⁶ Marine⁷ Master Sergeant Russell Murzyn, committed suicide at the age of 44.

MURZYN: He did leave a letter. And he put in the letter that his head hurt so bad, and he didn't feel he could be fixed⁸.

HILLARD: Russell who had served two tours in Iraq was being treated by the VA when he died. His widow says she didn't realize how bad things had become - that he was a wonderful new father and kept his feelings inside to protect those he loved.

MURZYN: Russell was that Marine that other Marines looked up to, and he was the guy that they went to with problems.

HILLARD: Like Murzyn, 47-year-old Jenny Much is attending her first American Widow Project retreat.

JENNY MUCH: I was pretty tore up one night, and I - just crying, sobbing⁹ or whatever. I went online and started searching for military widow communities.

HILLARD: Her husband, Navy commander Jason Much, died of brain cancer in July of last year. He was 44. When he was diagnosed, she asked him...

MUCH: Sweetie, what do you want to do? If you have a year, what do you want to do? You want to travel the world? Like, he's - really? I've been all over the world. He's like, I want to stay home and watch football.

HILLARD: For more than two decades, Jenny Much was a Navy wife. Two months after her husband died, she moved out of her house, bought an RV and drove across country visiting friends in the military community, but soon she realized she was not a part of the active duty world any more. Now the women of the American Widow Project are her adopted military family.

MUCH: The inspiration to get hearing their stories - and they can talk about their, you know, late husbands and laugh and tell stories and cry. And that's helping¹⁰ me. I have hope. That's the word. I have hope.

HILLARD: That's what Jenny Much is taking with her from this retreat. After a few months in the RV, she's now thinking maybe it's time to put down roots and start looking for a new home. For NPR News, I'm Gloria Hillard.

1 byline   

n.署名；v.署名

参考例句：

• His byline was absent as well.他的署名也不见了。
• We wish to thank the author of this article which carries no byline.我们要感谢这篇文章的那位没有署名的作者。

2 rental   

n.租赁，出租，出租业

参考例句：

• The yearly rental of her house is 2400 yuan.她这房子年租金是2400元。
• We can organise car rental from Chicago O'Hare Airport.我们可以安排提供从芝加哥奥黑尔机场出发的租车服务。

3 incision   

n．切口，切开

参考例句：

• The surgeon made a small incision in the patient's cornea.外科医生在病人的眼角膜上切开一个小口。
• The technique involves making a tiny incision in the skin.这项技术需要在皮肤上切一个小口。

4 inspection   

n.检查，审查，检阅

参考例句：

• On random inspection the meat was found to be bad.经抽查，发现肉变质了。
• The soldiers lined up for their daily inspection by their officers.士兵们列队接受军官的日常检阅。

5 sergeant   

n.警官，中士

参考例句：

• His elder brother is a sergeant.他哥哥是个警官。
• How many stripes are there on the sleeve of a sergeant?陆军中士的袖子上有多少条纹？

6 retired   

adj.隐退的，退休的，退役的

参考例句：

• The old man retired to the country for rest.这位老人下乡休息去了。
• Many retired people take up gardening as a hobby.许多退休的人都以从事园艺为嗜好。

7 marine   

adj.海的；海生的；航海的；海事的；n.水兵

参考例句：

• Marine creatures are those which live in the sea. 海洋生物是生存在海里的生物。
• When the war broke out,he volunteered for the Marine Corps.战争爆发时，他自愿参加了海军陆战队。

8 fixed   

adj.固定的，不变的，准备好的；(计算机)固定的

参考例句：

• Have you two fixed on a date for the wedding yet?你们俩选定婚期了吗？
• Once the aim is fixed,we should not change it arbitrarily.目标一旦确定，我们就不应该随意改变。

9 sobbing   

<主方>Ⅰ adj.湿透的

参考例句：

• I heard a child sobbing loudly. 我听见有个孩子在呜呜地哭。
• Her eyes were red with recent sobbing. 她的眼睛因刚哭过而发红。

10 helping   

n.食物的一份&adj.帮助人的，辅助的

参考例句：

• The poor children regularly pony up for a second helping of my hamburger. 那些可怜的孩子们总是要求我把我的汉堡包再给他们一份。
• By doing this, they may at times be helping to restore competition. 这样一来, 他在某些时候,有助于竞争的加强。