向前一步:第180期 全能女人是个神话(13)
I believed that others were demanding this of me my bosses at work and my daughter at home. 我认为别人也都期待我这么做工作是老板的要求，在家陪护是我女儿的要求。 But in truth, I was torturing myself. 但说实话，我完
向前一步:第181期 全能女人是个神话(14)
About two hours into the meal, the new mom was looking uncomfortable, glancing repeatedly at her cell phone. 晚宴进行了差不多2个小时，这位新妈妈看上去很不自在，不停地翻看自己的手机。 As a mother herself, Amy was se
向前一步:第182期 全能女人是个神话(15)
He explains that in every senior job I've had I've tried to create an environment of professionalism and the very highest standards. 他解释说，在我做过的所有高管工作中，我都试着创造一种倡导专业精神、高标准严要求的
向前一步:第183期 全能女人是个神话(16)
A 2012 survey of employed adults showed that 80 percent of the respondents continued to work after leaving the office, 2012年一项对职业人士的调查显示，80%的调查对象在离开办公室后还会继续工作， 38 percent checked email
向前一步:第184期 全能女人是个神话(17)
It's not only working parents who are looking for more hours in the day; 不仅是上班族的父母觉得白天时间不够用， people without children are also overworked, maybe to an even greater extent. 即便没有孩子的人也会工作过度，
向前一步:第185期 全能女人是个神话(18)
Facebook, on the other hand, had only 550 employees and was much more of a start-up. 另一方面，脸谱网当时只有550名员工，是个刚创立不久的公司。 Late night meetings and all-night hackathons were an accepted part of the cultur
向前一步:第186期 全能女人是个神话(19)
Every competitive, type-A fiber of my being was screaming at me to stay, but unless I had a critical meeting, I walked out that door. 虽然我身体里每一处好强、进取的细胞都在尖叫，让我留下来，但除非是有特别重要的会议
向前一步:第187期 全能女人是个神话(20)
If there is a new normal for the workplace, there is a new normal for the home too. 如果说这个时代的工作形成了一种新的常态，那么家庭也一样。 Just as expectations for how many hours people will work have risen dramatically,
向前一步:第188期 全能女人是个神话(21)
Sociologists call this relatively new phenomenon intensive mothering, 社会学家称这种新现象为强度母职， and it has culturally elevated the importance of women spending large amounts of time with their children. 这种现象从文化上强
向前一步:第189期 全能女人是个神话(22)
They tracked more than one thousand children over the course of fifteen years, 之后对1 000多名儿童进行了为期15年的跟踪研究， repeatedly assessing the children's cognitive skills, language abilities, and social behaviors. 反复地评
向前一步:第190期 全能女人是个神话(23)
Children absolutely need parental involvement, love, care, time, and attention. 孩子的成长需要父母的参与、关爱、照料、陪伴以及注意力的倾注， But parents who work outside the home are still capable of giving their childre
向前一步:第191期 全能女人是个神话(24)
She spent twenty minutes reciting from memory the name of every child, 结果她用20分钟告诉我班上每个孩子的名字， detailing their parents, siblings, which class they had been in the year before, and their interests. 并描述他们的父
向前一步:第192期 全能女人是个神话(25)
To this day, I count the hours away from my kids and feel sad when I miss a dinner or a night with them. 直到今天，我还是会计较有多长时间没陪孩子们，一旦错过和他们吃晚餐或是没能在晚上陪伴他们，我都会感到
向前一步:第193期 全能女人是个神话(26)
We rock and read together, just a quiet (okay, not always quiet), joyful moment at the end of their day. 我们一起摇着、一起读书，这算是他们一天当中最安静（好吧，也不是每次都那么安静）、最快乐的时刻。 The
向前一步:第194期 全能女人是个神话(27)
The aim is to have children who are happy and thriving. 这么做的目的就是让孩子们快乐、健康地成长； Wearing green T-shirts on St. Patrick's Day is purely optional. 而且，在圣帕特里克节穿不穿绿色衣服都是无关紧要
