学会沉默-矛盾激化时

 学会沉默-矛盾激化时

When under fire矛盾激化时

Getting in trouble is a part of life and sometimes the person in power just needs to run through everything they're upset about.

Bosses yell, referees¹ yells, our spouses² yell. It does not always help to talk back.

 

On the other hand, be silent and take the blows,then find a good time to say a concise³ sorry.

 

Even if you're not in the wrong. This will get you out of jail and on with your life a whole lot quicker.

1 referees   

n.裁判员( referee的名词复数 )；证明人；公断人；（专业性强的文章的）审阅人

参考例句：

• The fiery player has had numerous run-ins with referees. 这位脾气暴躁的队员曾和裁判员发生过无数次争吵。
• If you want to appeal, the Court of Referees will decide. 如果你要上诉，可以由仲裁法庭去判决。 来自辞典例句

2 spouses   

n.配偶，夫或妻( spouse的名词复数 )

参考例句：

• Jobs are available for spouses on campus and in the community. 校园里和社区里有配偶可做的工作。 来自辞典例句
• An astonishing number of spouses-most particularly in the upper-income brackets-have no close notion of their husbands'paychecks. 相当大一部分妇女——特别在高收入阶层——并不很了解他们丈夫的薪金。 来自辞典例句

3 concise   

adj.简洁的，简明的

参考例句：

• The explanation in this dictionary is concise and to the point.这部词典里的释义简明扼要。
• I gave a concise answer about this.我对于此事给了一个简要的答复。