低情商-拒绝听其他的观点(4)

The classic signs of low emotionalintelligence

 

经典的低情商表现

 

Refusing to listen to other points of view.

 

拒绝听其他的观点

 

Low EQ individuals feel that they areright and will defend their position with great vigor¹, yet refuse to listen towhat others have to say. This is particularly true if other people are criticalof how the individual does not understand what others are feeling. They areoften pessimistic and overly critical of other people’s feelings.

 

低情商的人认为他们总是对的，并会十分积极的维护他们的观点，同时拒绝倾听别人的观点。如果他人对于这位(低情商患者)不理解别人的感受提出质疑，那就更明显了。他们总是消极对待并过分质疑他人的感受。

 

An inability to cope withemotionally-charged situations.

 

无法应对情绪化的场景

 

Strong emotions, whether their own orthose of others, are difficult to comprehend for those with low emotionalintelligence. These individuals will often walk away from such situations toavoid having to deal with the emotional fallout. Hiding their true emotionsfrom others is also very common.

 

不管是别人的还是自己的激烈的情绪，对那些低情商的人来说都是很难理解的。这类人通常会远离情绪激烈波动的情景以逃避可能出现的情绪崩溃。在他人面前隐藏自己的真实情绪也很常见。

1 vigor   

n.活力，精力，元气

参考例句：

• The choir sang the words out with great vigor.合唱团以极大的热情唱出了歌词。
• She didn't want to be reminded of her beauty or her former vigor.现在，她不愿人们提起她昔日的美丽和以前的精力充沛。