讨喜法 Ask for advice. 征求意见。 Asking someone for advice is, somewhat surprisingly, a great strategy for getting people to like you. Asking foradvice shows that you value the other individual's opinion and demonstratesrespect. Everyone lik...
讨喜法 Avoid the clichs. 避免老生常谈。 Let's face it most of us don't like boring people. Instead, we like the unusual,the unique sometimes even the bizarre. 我们要面对现实大多数人都不喜欢无聊的人。相反，我们喜欢不...
讨喜法 Become an Expert in Storytelling. 善于讲故事。 People love a good story, and great stories require sophisticated storytellers. Storytelling is an art form that requires understanding of language and pacing. Master the fine oral tradit...
讨喜法 Avoid Issuing Orders Ask Questions Instead. 避免发号施令用问题来代替。 No one enjoys being bossed around. So what do you do when you need something done? The truth is that you can get the same result from asking a question as y...
讨喜法 Handle Criticism With Tact. 批评要委婉。 While you want to be generous with your praise, be stingy with your criticism. 虽然赞扬时不该吝啬，但批评别人时要注意。 People have delicate egos, and even a slight word of...
讨喜法 Sincere Compliments and Plentiful Praise. 真诚的赞美和各种称赞。 As noted again by the famous self-improvement expert Dale Carnegie, individuals crave authentic appreciation. 著名的自我提高方面的专家戴尔卡内基再次...
讨喜法 Conversation Recall: Prove You're Paying Attention. 对话回想：证明你在注意听。 To really show someone you've been paying attention, try bringing up a topic that the person mentioned earlier. 为了真正表明你在注意听，你...
讨人喜欢的诀窍 Use Verbal Confirmation. 言语确认。 Most psychology books refer to this technique as active listening. Active listening revolves around demonstrating your listening skills by repeating segments of what an individual has sai...
讨人喜欢的诀窍 Listen (Not Just With Your Ears). 倾听（不只是用耳朵）。 It's probably a no-brainer that people will like you more if you listen to them. 如果你聆听别人的倾诉，他们就会更喜欢你，这件事可能很好...
讨喜法 Use a Person's Name. 叫对方的名字。 Let's face it we're all huge narcissists and we all love the sound of our own name. Learn names and make use of them. Always use an individual's name in a conversation. This tried-and-true techniqu...
你要知道 Something you have to know Don't mistreat someone else's heart and don't allow someone to mistreat yours. 不要伤别人的心，也不要让别人伤你的心。 Don't be afraid to say hello. 不要害怕跟别人打招呼。 Do things...
你要知道 Something you have to know It's OK to miss people that were once a huge part of your life, but that doesn't mean you need them in your life now. 想念曾经在你生活中很重要的人很正常，但这并不意味着你现在的生活需...
你要知道 Something you have to know Appreciate the people you love. You never know when that kiss, hug or time together will be the last. 感激你所爱的人。你永远不会知道哪个吻、拥抱或相聚是最后一次。 Learn to be by yo...
你要知道 Something you have to know Don't speak ill of other people. It only brings negativity to and upsets your life, not theirs. 不要说别人的坏话。这只会给你的生活带来负面影响，扰乱你的生活，而非别人的生活。...
你要知道 Something you have to know Sometimes things don't work out, which opens your mind to new things. Better things. 有时候，做事不一定有结果。但它会带你认识新事物，认识更好的。 Learn from your experiences. They...
